2006-08-01 10:01:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first thought to this question is ... you must suspect something is not quite right.
Okay, most (and I speak from a male perspective) gay men are gentle, sincere, caring, loving, and want nothing more than to see everyone around them happy and merry.
I'm not going to go into the specifics of what happens in the bedroom, however, I must say, if you and he are in your room, and he's not aggressively seeking sexual attention from you, I wouldn't hesitate to ask him - 'Are you attracted to me?' Gentle questions will warrant gentle answers.
If he responds with mere conversation, chances are YOU may need to get a little more aggressive. Now - question - how aggressive is TOO aggressive? Do you touch him in places you would hope he lets you - and if he pulls away, do you ask him 'why?'
In all honesty, you deserve answers just as much as the next person trying to be in love. Ask questions - if you suspect something .. being honest is the best way to bring out his honesty. Be prepared for whatever response he sends your way. It may be eye-opening, but in actuallity wouldn't you feel better knowing rather than just hoping it's not true?
I wish you well .. seriously hun .. i do!
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2006-08-01 10:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by bga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW DO I UNDERSTAND HE'S GAY. WELL THATS KIND OF HARD UNLESS YOUR GAY YOURSELF THEN YOU COULD UNDERSTAND IT. MY SON IS 19, AND HE IS GAY I DON'T LIKE THE FACT THAT HE IS GAY, BUT HE IS MY FLESH AND BLOOD AND I LOVE HIM NO MATTER WHAT. I HOPE THIS HELPS......................................
2006-08-01 17:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no interest in woman and always like to touch man.
2006-08-01 17:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by lawrence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put his right hands on your left breast, his left hand on your thigh and if he doesn't want to **** you.... LOL
2006-08-01 17:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋