do you think it's wrong for a woman to ask a man to get circumsized?

Question

just curious, i have a few friends who say that they have a prefrence to the cleaner wee-wee. and i say cleaner because uncircumsized wankers are more prone to trapping bacteria.

not to offend you uncut guys, i'm just going by what the gyno told me, which was that uncut men have a harder time getting all the bacteria out. keep in mind i am a female i don't have one myself i wouldn't know how to clean one. and i'm just asking because if a woman is under the premise that an uncut tool is more vonerable to bacteria and being that this tool will be inside her body does it give her the right to say anything to him?

I MUST SAY THIS IS NOT A COSMETIC ISSUE. DO NOT COMPARE THIS TO HIM ASKING ME TO GET SOME WORK DONE ON ME. IT'S A HEALTH ISSUE, AND IF I HAD FUNGAL FEET OR SOMETHING THAT WAS IN HIS MOUTH THEN I THINK HE HAS THE RIGHT TO TELL ME TO CHOP OFF A TOE. LOL (BUT YOU GET THE IDEA) hopefully....

Answer 1

Some of these answers are so ignorant..First of all, it is unsafe and unclean to be "UnCirumsized"!...
Studies have proven that un-cut men have higher rates of HIV and other STD's--which they easily spread to women.A woman has the right to protect her health by demanding that a man gets himself circumsized if he plans on being with her. And Every woman should get her newborn sons cirumsized--period
I would never ever consider marrying a man who was uncut and therefore, unclean.

Peace

Answer 2

Hi there!

When it comes down to it, a man's penis is his property and his decision - just as it would be yours if he wanted you to have your labia (vaginal lips) enlarged through plastic surgery or your vagina tightened. As you probably know, almost all circumcized men had the procedure done when they were babies, and it isn't very painful. However, as an adult, there's a lot more pain and bother involved. I'll post the answer to a similar kind of question below:

"As a medical procedure, circumcision has both health benefits and risks. Critics of adult circumcision point to its disadvantages, among which include:

+ temporary pain after the operation (this is true for any surgery)
+ temporary irritation of the glans (the head of the penis)
different and/or decreased sensation during sex
+ risk of complications and/or surgical errors (again, as with any surgery)

Also, for what it's worth, health care providers recommend that after circumcision a man abstains from any kind of sexual activity for four to six weeks to allow for a full recovery. In fact, even having an erection in this period of time after the procedure can cause complications, such as discomfort, pain, and disruption of the sutures. Moreover, some men may find arousal, erection, and/or ejaculation to be so uncomfortable that they may not mind the break from sex.

Proponents of adult circumcision advocate it for a number of reasons, including:

+ cleanliness or ease of maintaining hygiene
+ slightly reduced risk of getting sexually transmitted infections (STIs), such as human immunodeficiency virus (HIV — the virus that causes AIDS) and human papillomavirus (HPV — the virus that causes genital warts)

Regular cleaning of the foreskin and the glans, however, usually alleviates most potential hygienic problems. Additionally, safer sex techniques are much more effective in preventing STIs than circumcision.

Some critics may also argue that after the surgery, some men may find that their penises just aren't what they used to be, aesthetically speaking. On the other hand, some advocates of circumcision may believe that circumcised penises are better looking. In the end, it comes down to personal preference.

Given the fact that the health benefits of circumcision are negligible or unclear, consulting with a health care provider before deciding to have the procedure done is highly recommended. If circumcision is the final choice, then a person can discuss a variety of topics about the operation (including the amount of foreskin that is removed) with the surgeon, usually a urologist, before the procedure.

(http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0087.html)

So, as to the whole cleaner thing, the truth is that a guy can keep his uncircumcized penis clean if he makes use of soap every day in the shower. Some women find circumcized penises to be prettier or easier to jack off, however.

I think the main thing to remember is that you'd be asking your man to do something that actually entails quite a bit of pain, for reasons that he won't necessarily share.

If you're worried about his hygiene - and that's totally your right - I suggest discussing his cleaning habits with him before you spring for the circumcision solution.

Unless, that is, he's open to it, in which case, chop away!

Answer 3

yes, it's wrong for a woman to tell a guy what to do with his toolbox. also, you're wrong about the bacteria. I am uncut and never had anything like that in my life. I think if you take a shower at least once a day and you clean EVERYWHERE, then you're fine either way.

Answer 4

I think it's a bit on the dangerous side for a man to get circumsized. My husband is not circumsized and I would have a big problem putting him in that kind of risk. Let alone someone you're just having fun with

Answer 5

Yes, I think it is wrong to ask. Only more prone if he does not clean it. My husband is not and his is fine and clean. I grew up in a family where thats what you did to the babies, and so when I found out I was pregnant with a boy, I thought we would. My husband refused. We did alot of reserach and talked to many doctors and there is no medical reason to have one. The doctors advised that it was a personal perference or a religious preference.

Answer 6

Only if you don't mind if the man asks you to get circumsized too. Or maybe a breast implant. You wouldn't find that shallow and vain if a man wouldn't keep you unless you got breast implants, would you?

They're only more prone to trapping bacteria if you don't clean them properly, just like dirty circumsized penises would.

Answer 7

I don't think cleanliness is much of a problem. But I'm glad I've only run into circumcised penii (hee hee) in my life. The uncut ones are ugly! I googled them the other day (I was really bored.)

Answer 8

Tell him to wash it! There is a lot more involved in keeping a vagina fresh but, we don't circumcise our labia for cleanliness sake. We just teach our daughters, or ourselves to wash well.
There's no need for all that slicing and dicing when some soap and water will do the trick.

Answer 9

Those who are not circumsized are clean. They just need to take a bit of extra care. Where do you get that information from???? Those who are not circumsized at birth, should leave what they have alone.

Answer 10

Not right. They aren't prone to trapping bacteria if it is washed properly. No more prone than that open wound you walk around with.