2006-08-01 09:43:46 · 22 answers · asked by LosinMyMind101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm always trying to sudo him or have sex and i have tryed all the sugesstions.clothes,tricks or trades of it and he will say i'm tired.,it's to hot , had along day it is endless excuses????????On day he came to the house for lunch AND I WAS NUDE AND HE REJECTED ME THEN?? what the *ell?he is only 38 years old?help?
2006-08-01 10:03:32 · update #1
he may have more of and emotional connection to you now, and dont feel the need to have sex.
2006-08-01 09:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you and him are not married, then go out and find someone who is still alive and wanting an actual life with a female. Yes you could say, " I have two years invested in this or him, but look at this way it is two years but you have learned what you needed from him and vice versa and now you are graduating all over again, open the doors and look at the life you are ready to explore again. Good luck.
2006-08-01 16:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be related to depression, stress or any number of things. I've suffered from depression since I was a teenager and my sex drive has fluctuated through-out my life. Last year, I had no sex drive and had been with my husband for 3 years. I got on Wellbutrin XL (has low risk of sexual side effects) and my sex drive has never been better.
2006-08-01 16:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lunasea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Means he's utterly bored with you in bed. Course, since if he actually says that, you'll beat him to a pulp, he just says he's not in the mood.
Initiate sex with him and be enthusiastic about it, and start trying new things. If you still can't get a 'rise' out of him, then sit down with him and ask him directly what you can do to turn him on more.
If he's not man enough to answer . . . well, probably time to try someone new.
2006-08-01 16:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either there's a medical problem, or something is going on the relationship that is causing him to get bored. Try sexy outfits, try seducing him, spice it up a bit - but you've got to be comfortable with whatever you do. And trust me - a nurse's outfit should do the trick :oD
2006-08-01 16:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he really doesn't have the urge or he's losing interest but think when the last time you guys tried something new and not only that but maybe this just leaves more room for yall to connect on a deeper level
2006-08-01 16:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by karlynlevan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's not attrated to u anymore (not saying that there is anything wrong with u) maybe ur the one that changed, do u come on to him and experiment with him. do u have the same urge that u had when yall met? just try something new, im sure he will enjoy it....whats the worst that can happen?
2006-08-01 16:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Keeta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this but the same thing happened to me and the sex stopped because he was getting it from someone else...i don;t believe any man who says they don;t have the urge...get a new man,you can do better!
2006-08-01 16:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my wife almost 10 years and I can't keep my hands off of her. He might want to go to a Dr. and make sure everything is okay! Loss of desire can be a reaction to other medical issues!
2006-08-01 16:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's lost interest in you which is okay. Try not trying for a few weeks. Buy lingere and spice things up. It's okay to be different sometimes.
2006-08-01 16:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anaree22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey if hes not willing to **** you, hes prolly bored, or cheating on you with another woman, and hes had enough sex for his day. you need to check up and make sure none of this is going on.
2006-08-01 16:48:34 · answer #11 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋