i dont understand..?

Question

My ex, says he likes another girl, and that he dont love me, and stuff...but why is he still bothering me, and telling me certain stuff is cheating? But then again he says, "im a ****, im butt ugly, a terrible singer, and fat."

and the funny thing is Im a virgin, im definetly not ugly, I sing like an angel, and I go to the gym everyday...so im not fat."

Why is he bothering me still if he has another girl? and do you think he means that stuff, or honestly, is he trying to get me insecure, but he knows im not that stuff?

im a christian, and he says hell get better than me, but i think im a great girl, im pure, i love God, nice, and so on.

what is upm with hi,m?

Answer 1

my guess is u broke up with him...? either way, it doesn't matter. sounds like he's jealous, knows that u are a great girl and it pisses him off that u don't want him anymore!! what a jerk, no need to say those things to u. i'm very glad that u are a strong person who is confident about yourself, knows that u have great qualities. ur faith in God is awesome too... so use that to help u forgive and forget this guy. there's no need to understand him; he's not a good person to be so awful to you. even if he did love u, and was hiding it, it's no way to call u names and try to make u feel bad about yourself. surround urself w/ positive, happy, healthy and loving people, and u will see just how good of a decision u've made to move on w/o him. let him go, don't talk to him too much anymore, and let whatever negativity he brings roll off ur back... u are a great person, and deserve someone great. he's just mad cuz he's not good enough for u. even if u still "want to be friends", it's probably not a good idea. perhaps later when time passes by, and he can grow up a bit .

Answer 2

He obviously still wants you. Don't play into it though. Go on with your life. It sounds like you can do a lot better.