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I have a ton of things to get done but I just cannot get the energy and mindset going to complete them.

2006-08-01 09:14:53 · 21 answers · asked by Signilda 7 in Health Mental Health

21 answers

sometimes i do the worst one first. after that i remind
myself the next one will not be so bad. promise your
self a reward for doing x amount of the work. that helps
too.

2006-08-01 09:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Human motivation is a response that our body has to some
form of either internal or external stimulation.

In simple terms, it means that our body is responding to
stimulation. An example is that we are motivated to eat
something because we are hungry. We are directing a
behavior to a particular goal. Humans need to be motivated
to do just about anything in life. That is why it is so
Important to set goals.

Sure, we may not need to set a goal to eat, sleep or drink.
Those are internal stimulations. But sometimes in life we
find that we need to motivate ourselves to do other
important functions in life.

Some of these include: losing weight, exercising, quitting
smoking, cleaning the house, doing homework or finding a
job. Those are just to mention a few.

The bottom line is, we need to set goals to do some of
these things. Without goals, we really can't begin to get
motivated. As humans, we need to have the reason to do
something. That is how our brain works.

There are three basic types of personalities
that determine human motivation.

1. The need for achievement is the drive to excel at things
and strive to succeed. This type is in it for the
competition only.

2. The need for power is the desire to make people behave a
certain way with the power of human motivation. This type
of person is in it for the power and could care less about
the competition.

3. The need for affiliation is the strong needs for close
interpersonal relationships with others. This type of
person is in it for friends. They will cooperate just to
have the social aspect.

These are all types of personalities that are part of human
motivation. It is what drives us to think the way we think
and desire the things that we desire.

Depending on which human motivation type you are will
determine what motivates you. There can also be a
combination of two or three to make up someone's
personality.

Everyone is different in that different things motivate
each and every one of us. In order to get motivated, one
needs to first set goals out in front of them to meet. They
need to be goals that are within reach.

Then after the goals have been set down, it is time to get
a plan on what it will take to meet your goals. Write it
down and prioritize the things that need to be done in
order to achieve this motivation.

The final stage to human motivation is to make a commitment
to keep focused on the goals. Remember, motivation is what
drives us all. We need to have it to achieve anything.


Although some lucky people seem to be born highly
motivated, if you are of at least average intelligence you
can learn how to be motivated. No matter how unmotivated
you have been up to now you can still become a winner.

A winner is simply someone who
utilizes their resources and
brain power to their best
advantage while maintaining
a positive motivation and
attitude. If you have ever
wished to be a winner, look
for the motivation and attitude
to help you succeed...

2006-08-02 05:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlyfe86 2 · 0 0

Ask yourself why you are doing these tasks. What are you trying to accomplish by getting these things done? What will be the end result of completing these tasks? It's like being at work. Thinking about the paycheck or job advancement gives your work a purpose.

2006-08-01 16:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by DayTripper 2 · 0 0

I have the same problem. What I do to not feel guilty about not completing a task, before I allow myself to watch tv or go to bed, etc, I must do 3 things. The 3 things might be put the dishes away, or sweep the floor, or feed and water the dog.....

then I dont feel so bad about not completing things.

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2006-08-01 16:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by bran 5 · 0 0

If it's really so boring, it must not be a challenge. If it's so easy that you can "do it with your eyes closed", you can let your imagination take flights of fancy. Make up stories or just sing songs. Imaginative people can usually entertain themselves. Think about the interesting things that you can possibly be doing when you finish your boring task.

2006-08-02 02:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Sue 2 · 0 0

Try Zen: Zen and the Art of Doing Boring Tasks.

2006-08-01 16:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 0 0

The thought of finishing it and getting it out of my way. What I do is estimate how long it should take me and set a clock to it to see if I can beat the time. If I can "fool" myself into making it seem less boring, I can get it finished as fast as possible.

But someone once told me, "that's why it's called WORK"

2006-08-01 16:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by chairman_of_the_bored_04 6 · 0 0

usually, money.

but if it's not for your work, make yourself a list - the satisfaction of crossing things off when you're done is nice. and also plan a small reward for yourself when you're finished, like getting some ice cream or seeing a movie or going shoe-shopping.
:)

2006-08-01 16:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by frenchfri82 2 · 0 0

I try to get things ,like ironing, done as fast as possible because most of the time it is the "antisapation" that is worse than the task

wheatsystems

2006-08-01 16:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I try to get them done quick. That way I have more time to enjoy. If I know I have things to do it's hard to relax and enjoy my time off.

2006-08-01 16:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by n317537 4 · 0 0

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