how can you make a man love you and only you?

Question

fellas help me out what makes u fall head over heels for a girl

Answer 1

Do a white spell on him! - I did and im stuck with mine!! (b careful wwt u wish for......)

Answer 2

Chemistry is the first part. There is a nautral reaction between people that causes infatuation. Infatuation is the "head over heels" feeling that you get. There is no artificial way to create that, because it is a combination of desire and the possibility of loss that make the feelings so intense.

Once you get beyond that you must have shared goals and mutual respect. The head over heels thing soon fades no matter what you do.

Answer 3

You can't make a man love you and only you. Look, do this: go out and find a sandpile. Reach down and pick up a handful of sand, holding your hand flat and your fingers together. Now try to hold onto that sand by closing your hand and making a tight fist. What happens? Right - you lose most of the sand. Now pick up another handful and carry it back to your door, but this time keep your hand open, palm up. You got there with most of the sand still in your hand, didn't you? Relationships are like that: the harder you grip your guy, the harder it is to hold onto him. The pressure will drive him away, just like the pressure of your hand drove most of the sand away.
Your first and most potent weapon is respect: respect him for who and what he is, and allow him the freedom to choose. If he chooses you, you'll know that he chose you for the right reasons, not the wrong ones, and he'll be much more likely to remain with you to the end of your days.

Answer 4

Hey, Im not a man but I wanted to tell you that you can never "make" anyone to feel anything. Just be yourself the nicest self you can be and the right man will fall for you, give it time and room to grow, and work on loving yourself, then it will be less of an issue.

Men can be gently led but they dont like to be pushed.

Answer 5

Love isn't something you can desire and get on a whim.

You can't look at some guy and make him love you or you love him. It's going to take time and committement to the relationship.

Do you know how he feels? Does he know how you feel?

Communicate. Tune into what his love language is and how it differs from yours.

LISTEN.

Don't let yourself fall into a fantasy life. In every relationship there are bumps and bruises.

Answer 6

you can't make anyone fall in love with you. if you try to do that they'll run the other way!

guys like the thrill of the chase, so your best bet is to be aloof and not pay too much attention to them, and let them come to you. If you stop worrying about getting a guy, and be confident, they will notice it and seek you out.

Answer 7

You can't, and you will make yourself crazy trying. You can get a guy to have sex with you, but love is not something you can "make" happen.
I know a few things you can do to drive them away:
harass them constantly
whine, complain, and demand that they spend money on you
take terrible care of yourself
take terrible care of their children
take terrible care of them
On the other hand, I know women who have done all of the above, and have devoted husbands, and I know women who have done none of those things, and been dumped on by their men. It's not rational--it's emotional.

Answer 8

Easy Way:
wash his car every weekend, bring him beer, make him food, clean his home, buy him sporting event tickets for him and his friends, take care of his "needs" even if he didn't know he needed them, give him money, let him quit his job, wear nothing in the house, don't talk about you, your friends, kids, or anything "girlie", in fact, don't talk at all unless it starts with "what can I do for you?" oh and be 5'6 110 lbs all the time

Hard Way:
Love him, treat him with respect, be honest, fun, interesting, playful, encouraging, fair, forgiving, and realistic

Answer 9

Sorry. But that's impossible... Men are not made
for this ... men want to play. And they always think:
"Jesus, I miss something!"
So they cheat even on the best girl they ever had. Or to
impress their friends they do nothing but nonsense
... and the girl is alone at home ...

If You want to stay a man stay at home:
Break his legs ....

Answer 10

It's like Beanie Mac says.
The 3 Fs.
"Feed him, F**k him, shut the F**k up"

These are the qualities that most guys love in an girl.

But if they were the ONLY qualities your guy looks for in a girl, then I say don't even think about dating him.

Answer 11

You can't make anyone love you. Be yourself and if he loves you then he will let you know. Trying to force someone to love you ends up one of two ways. Either he lies to you to make you feel good or he leaves you alone because its not what he is looking for.