Have you ever Cheated on your spouse and why ?

Question

I always struggled with this question I always thougt the right thng to do was to part ways but somehow some people dont see it that way. Yes outside there are more intreasting people but we cant have them all can we ? NO so if someone wants to settle what drives them other than lust of others to cheat ... thanks

Answer 1

My gf cheated on me. She didnt really know why she did it but some people do it because they are insecure and need to know that other people find them attractive enough to have sex with. This is why i think my gf . Other cheat because they are getting too involved in the current relationship and cant handle it. So instead of breaking it off they take the cowards way out and hurt the other person to make them end it. Yet others do it because they are not satisfied with something in the current realtionship. Whatever it be physical or emotional needs they arent being met so the person feels that maybe cheating is the answer (ITS NOT). There are many reason why people do it and i will npt understand any of them

Answer 2

My spouse and that i discussed it one night and we the two understood that if the two human beings have been to cheat are marriage could be over each so often in life there are no longer any 2nd possibilities so which you extra clever make the terrific of your first. 3 yrs later we've been given the possibility to confirm what happens whilst a chum of my spouse's have been given caught and he or she paid an fairly heavy value. the biggest subject is cheaters never totally understand the implications until it is to overdue. Her chum rather plenty lost each little thing and that i think of if every person have been to ask her if it became properly worth it she probable might say no.

Answer 3

No, I haven't cheated on my spouse.

My relationship with my wife and son are a big part of what is best in my life. To mess that up by lusting after another woman would be just plain stupid of me.

Being married doesn't mean you aren't attracted to other people. It means your relationship with your spouse is more important than your attraction to anyone else. If you are having problems with attraction to others, try turning that energy into something fun and sexy with your spouse. It really comes down to how you feel about yourself, and being desired by your spouse is better than being desired by some outsider any day.

Answer 4

no never cheated. even when I've had many temptations. lust is very strong, but you have to ask yourself is it worth it? if you can cheat on your spouse you must not really love them to do so. think about it sometimes lust is one of the things that draws you to your spouse in the first place.

Answer 5

If you get caught, than even if you stay together, it will never be the same as before. Something would have been lost between you that cannot be recovered no matter how long you remain together.

Answer 6

Unmet needs in the primary relationship
PLUS
a desire to maintan the primary relationship
(or you would just break up not cheat)

Answer 7

no i wouldnt cheat, but i think sometimes it has to do with how the relationship is that they are in. or it could be just stupidity on the cheaters part

Answer 8

You hit the nail on the head. Lust. I cheated. I wanted hotter sex and to feel bigger breasts.

Answer 9

No. But a lot of people around me has so i know not to. If you don't want to be w/ that person than break up w/him. if you want both you must choose who is better for you.

Answer 10

ya something you need to cheat when situation. don't always be honest to tell the true. example something bad news.