About three months ago, I rented a nasty movie for my wife and I to watch together, to spice things up. When a scene came on with this black stud humping a pretty white chick, my wife said, "This is getting hot. They are both really into it!" Later, we had fantastic sex. Now, after all this time, I offered to get another movie for some more fun. My wife said, "Can you get one like last time, with a hot black guy?" I wasn't jeolous (a guy is not gonna come through the tv and **** my wife), but I asked her why it was such a turn-on for her. She told me that I kept her more than happy, and she would never cheat on me, I was her one and only man, etc. She just said that black ***** look the best in the movies and they were a HUGE turn-on. No pun intended. She explained that it was a common fantasy. She countered that she isn't worried that Halle Berry turns me on. Am I wrong to be concerned? What about this "they look the best on TV" stuff--is that just a BS line? Is this weird or common?
2006-08-01 08:42:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you need to worry. She's just turned on by black guys... doesn't mean she'll go out and find one to have sex with. She just enjoys the visual. Don't you enjoy watching the girls in the videos? Of course you do but it's not like you want them instead of your wife. Just relax and enjoy the great sex afterwards.
2006-08-01 08:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rent another movie. Was it fantastic sex for you only? Maybe it was the guy in the movie she was fantasizing about while having sex. Here's what you do: you offer to make your own movie with her. Present the question as a joke but let her know you want her badly. When you two start gettin it on, you show her how much of a stud you are. Work that majic stick homeboy. Let her know that you don't need a movie to give it to her right.
-Dr.P
2006-08-01 08:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You insecure little chump, you set yourself up! Dope! Nitwit! Lamebrain! Look, she's right: fantasizing about sex with another man, or with a man of another race, or with several men, or even with another man while you watch is very, very common among women of all ages. But take heart: very, very few women EVER act upon such fantasies. That's a woman's strength: she can imagine the worst and not be unduly influenced by it, while too many men decline to resist temptation and go looking for ways to act out their fantasies.
Tell ya what, dude: you bug her about it, and she'll get tired of it and dump your insecure little behind hole! And then you'll be looking for the address of my professional office to cure your depression!
2006-08-01 09:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whats with these wives being turned on by black penis' today! Geez! Theres nothing wrong with it but its just a little odd. Do her a favor. Paint it black one night and suprise her. Then message me and tell me her reaction. HA.
2006-08-01 08:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by chlobug26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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http://www.littlegeneva.com/images/aids_graph.jpg
http://www.newnation.org/NNN-hatecrimes.html
http://www.newnation.org/NNN-Black-on-White.html
http://www.tightrope.cc/rap.htm
2006-08-01 15:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋