Hi'
I tried to ask this question earlier but only got
2 answers,yet this is very important to me.
My abusive boyfriend broke up with me for
the 2nd time. Should I expect him to stay away
from me this time,or expect him to return.
He's been gone 3 weeks now,and I am trying
to move on with my life now. I have only known
him a little over 2 months,so I cannot know if he
will really stay gone for sure?
He was jealous,and he was bossy and hurt me
emotionally,and he has pushed me down once.
I am healing and want to move on now,but don't
want him to apologize again and try to get me
back. He tried to make me choose between
him and the family I love.
Please help me,ok?
2006-08-01 08:36:46 · 13 answers · asked by Ariel Diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXX honesty, he won't stay away. The best thing you can do to make sure he will is to get a restraining order against him. Do not let any man abuse you ever again!!!!! This is unexceptable and no woman deserves this. Ever!!!! XXXXXXXX
2006-08-01 08:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u don't need any help.. u've already stated that he's abusive which is a big no no.. he's not a man if he'll raise his hand to hurt a woman... 2nd u've only been w/him for 2 mos, what do u know about him, probably just his name.. move on before he hurts u again.. tell him don't apologize just go get help and find someone else..
let him know ur done w/him and that ur moving on, and stop entertaining him.. don't answer his calls, don't open the door for him.. he comes w/in 5 ft of u tell him u'll call the cops..
he'll get the point.. i'd even get a restraining order...
be careful...
2006-08-01 15:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. The dude needs help. You choose family. a man is to NEVER put his hands on a woman unless for affection. Women are princes, flowers. They are not to be battered and bruised emotionally or physically. this guy is a loser sweety. Lose him. Move on to bigger and better things out there. Im pretty sure you are a nice person and dont deserve that.
2006-08-01 15:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, He'll be back. You took him back the first time, He'll definitely try again. Don't take his calls, make sure you stay near friends or have someone that can come over to your house at a moments notice.
If he does try to get you back, stay strong and remember that he's a jerk no matter how sweet he might try to be. Just say No.
2006-08-01 15:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter if he tries to come back, you need to stand your ground no matter what he tries to convice you of otherwise. If you're worried that you'll take him back if he tries, take the time now to write down why you shouldn't be with him to remind yourself why you shouldn't be with him. Once a bad guy, usually always a bad guy. They don't change that quickly and won't change for you no matter what he tells you.
2006-08-01 15:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Frustrated employee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if he will stay away or not, but you should do your best to make him stay away. change your phone number so he cant get ahold of you and things like that. if he does show up again and hurts you make sure your report him right away so that there will be evidence and so that he doesnt hurt anyone else.
2006-08-01 15:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want him back. He's a loser with issues that he needs to deal with and your willing to go through that with him..lie and tell him you got another boyfriend... That'll get rid of him. You don't need his BS anyway.P.S... Anyone who wants to have themselves before your own family is selfish and not worth the time of day!
2006-08-01 15:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by amylr620 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might not stay away so you have to make sure if he comes back that you stay strong and not go back. He will abuse you again. Believe me.
2006-08-01 15:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that its over and you cant go on like this. you choose your family over any jerk that trys to hurt you. you cant keep going back to him. your only gonna end up getting hurt and it could even get worse. keep your head up ok :)
2006-08-01 15:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 words for U RESTRAINING ORDER
2006-08-01 15:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋