There is this guy at my church that I've liked for a long time. I don't flirt very much, and i never had a boyfriend. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. How do I let him know how I feel, with out flirting alot?
2006-08-01 08:21:02 · 23 answers · asked by JeSuSfReAk121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-01 08:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thank you for asking this from a "Church" perspective.
As a background, I have been married for 15 years and we are active in our Church and Community. I personally enjoy reading questions and giving my own opinions and advice.
Otherwise, I stay out of peoples lives.
As for your attraction to a Guy at Church and how you let them know...
How well do you know this guy?
Are there some activities that you can to in a 'Group' setting where you can get to know him and he you with no strings attached?
How do you feel about asking him out on a date?
What are some creative date ideas that you can think of which you could invite him to do?
What are some things you can do as 'Friends' that would allow you to let God work towards either bringing you together or towards keeping you as 'Friends'?
How willing are you to taking the risk of being honest without smothering?
Best wishes to you and you are being lifted in Prayer.
2006-08-01 15:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him at the church. It is a well respected place. He will understand that you want him for himself not wanting to flirt with him.
2006-08-01 15:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by want2know007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of start getting closer to him. Talk to him, get to know his emotions and what he feels like. What he likes to do, mainly start being a friend to him. Just get to be a good friend and than start to tell him that you have liked him for so long.
2006-08-01 15:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him to find out more about him. Try to become friends. Then you will know whether he likes you or not. If you need more guidance pray and ask God for help.
2006-08-01 15:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by ricky90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. If he doesn't often see you flirting with guys, he should get the picture. Talk to him, that's all you really have to do.
2006-08-01 15:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need an "in" or anything to talk about before hand, just walk up to him and say "would you like to go to dinner with me?"
2006-08-01 15:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by praehunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u have to be yourself and listen to wat he says about his life and he will know u are intrested in him by that and u could become good friends and it might turn into more if u both like eachother. You will also be able to tell if he likes u by asking u questions about yourself and your life.
2006-08-01 15:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by toblonde4u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him more and spend time with him. Then you'll feel comfortable enough to just tell him.
2006-08-01 15:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare, just ask him out. Use ecrush, friend, note. U just have to try, otherwise u'llnever know.
2006-08-01 15:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend to tell him you like him.. or u could always have one of your friends ask him if he likes u.. or u could ask him who he likes at the church!!! i was in the same situation.. and i had all these things happend but how i told him and how i found out he liked me was i asked him who he liked at the church and he said a few gurls and i had him name them and i was one of the gurls..and then he asked me and i was like ummm.. someone specail.. and then i was like u!!! lol.. but yea we got to close of friends thou..and now i dont like him but he still likes me good luck!!
2006-08-01 15:27:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋