A dating Question?

Question

OK i need some feed back here. I had a friend who knew I liked this girl alot. We were great friends untill he dated this girl that I liked.
I wanted to date her before I move away cause I was not sure I be able ever to date her. N E Ways I feel I made a snap judgment on him as a person. Know we hate each outher. In fact I still miss our friendship. How do I repair our friendship with all the negative thing I have said to him. Do you think he will understand?

Answer 1

u shouldnt mend anything he knew u liked the girl n he went out with her,dnt feel guilty u have all right to hate him,so now just 4give him n move on n dnt try n mend anything

Answer 2

As far as your friend goes, I wouldn't call him that anymore. A real friend would respect you enough to give it a chance with her. But really that is all about what she wants as well. Don't waste your time fighting and hating him. Doesn't sound like he really gives a hoot. It is normal to grieve any loss. It passes if you keep yourself busy and get out and make other friends. Besides the right girl is just around the corner from you, look forward to meeting her instead of trying to fix something that is broken. In time you will both see what really matters in life is good friends. We spend our lives trying other people on, then moving on to the next person. Good luck

Answer 3

don't ever let a girl get in the way of ur friendship. u are treating this girl as if she has no thoughts of her own.. who did she choose to be with? who does she like better? why do u let this get in the way of a good person u have been friends w/? what if she chose him.. are u going to hate him??? what if she chose you... he's going to hate you? stupid!! it's not about a girl.. it's about being a mature person who can handle ups and downs of life, and MAINTAIN good relationships w/ people. if u let ur jealousy or selfishness get in the way YOU're not a good friend. try to apologize to him, and admit ur mistakes. u let something get in the way of ur friendship, and it wasn't right. if he is good guy, he will accept. if not, just give it time, eventually it will get better.

Answer 4

You need to apoligize to him first of all and explain to him that you were wrong. Also tell him that a girl shouldn't break your friendship apart. Try to add examples of all the good times you had together. If he is your true friend you be suprised by how much they would understand. Good luck and I hope I have helped you!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

depends on if u really miss him. give him a call. tell him it was wrong but u wanna move on from that. there will be other girls. just make sure he knows that if u like them to leave them alone. dont miss out on a good friendship cuz of a girl

Answer 6

difinitly u told ur friend that :::::I wanted to date her before I move away cause I was not sure I be able ever to date her.
so he did it befor both ov u miss it and see don't ruin ur relationship over gurls and this kiddish stuff

Answer 7

i can understand how you would have been upset with him, i had a similar situation, but if you really want to try to be friends with him again you will have to do a lot of apologizing.

Answer 8

you and him need to sit down and talk then you will start to repair your friendship

Answer 9

h e proably would know where you came from when you did what you did. by the way, look what he did t you

Answer 10

tell him your feelings... he will surely respond in a possitive way