Guys got a weird problem with my friend.
I asked her (on phone) for an outing to a great eating joint, she agreed and then I asked her if she knows the direction to the place perfectly as she was regular at that place some times back and I had never checked it out. She then asked why U never been there before as its an great place? And I replied as I didn’t know the direction/ it wasn’t handy when I visited tht particular area I never give it a shot.
Now, she thinks I wana go with her only to know the directions! I explained to her that this is an misunderstanding and that I really enjoy being with her and hence I wana go with her, but she Is not understanding and this has lead to an lot of bitter arguments and now our friendship is at the stakes.
NOTE: I also Msged her the entire add./tel number to her of the joint we planned to visit with in 15 minutes of all this mess, but still she doesn’t want to understand.
What should I do? Shall I break-up with her? U think its my fault or her to be so insensitive?
2006-08-01 08:04:11 · 4 answers · asked by Craige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is pretty stupid (dont' tell her that btw..) but she sounds EXTREMELY defensive and unstable in her relationship w/ you. she must have some sort of problem w/ being "used".. perhaps she's experienced it a lot in the past??
we all have the internet. u coulda gotten the directions from google. or asked a friend. u could've even asked her directions and NOT asked her to go.. so what? people call me all the time.. "how do u get to this mall, i'm on the freeway?" do i really care that they didn't ask me to go to the mall too? NOPE. so she is extremely insecure about something. ask her what is bothering her, and why she doesn't trust you. if she can't answer it, then there's not much u can do. keep ur distance.. u can't always baby her..she needs to learn to be independent and to trust people instead of always feeling like a victim.
2006-08-01 08:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not take her somewhere else and say here see i do want to hang out with u. why are u so set on going to that place. if it works out then later on in the relationship u can go to that place and look back at this and laugh at how silly she was being.
2006-08-01 15:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very VERY petty to me (and perhaps not very bright either)...I'd use those directions and take someone else.
2006-08-01 08:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. If she persists, find someone better.
2006-08-01 08:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋