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2006-08-01 08:01:57 · 41 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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if u dont want too then it is very very hard im goin thru the same thing at the mo my gf left me 2 wks ago after 5 yrs.
all im doin is keeping busy ie workin overtime, goin out wi good friends who help take ur mind off things 4 abit u wont be able to totally forget bout ur ex but keeping ursen busy will take away a little n i mean a little of ur pain but a little is better than not at all.
give ur ex a little space n if its love then they'll be bk.
well hope this is an answer that will help u thru this hard time.



hope everything works out wi u 2

2006-08-01 09:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Allow yourself a proper mourning period.Mourn the end of your relationship as you would the passing off a loved one.Give yourself the proper time to heal.Way to many people rush head long into another relationship without really dealing with how they felt about the end of their last and it only causes problems in the end.
Try not to hate your ex it takes way to much energy and thats energy you need for you.Allow yourself to have days when you feel crappy but also remember you will come through this stronger in the end.Embrace your newly found freedom and use the time you would have spent with your ex to do things that make you feel good about yourself.

2006-08-01 08:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by rhieanon6108 2 · 0 0

Start Dateing Other People.

2006-08-01 08:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0 0

You can start hanging out with your friends more. Try to remember that boys come and go but you will always have your friends. You can start taking up other activities to get your mind off things for a while. This relationship was obviously not meant to go any futher so hang in there and you will find your true love in the most uncertain places. Good luck!!!

2006-08-01 08:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Give yourself a little time, and don't bottle things up are two things I had to learn. Once you've talked about it with someone, you'll find yourself snapping out of it easier and you won't be thinking about it as much. It's no good to "mourn their loss" so to speak, so if you have things in your room/house that your ex gave you, or reminds you of him/her, pictures, etc. Get them out of sight. If you don't want to throw it all away, you can store it in a safe place where you don't have to see it every day or give non-specific items away like stuffed animals and things. It's hard but it will feel good and soon you'll be over it and ready to move on. Good luck, hun.

2006-08-01 08:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by nintendofreak91788 2 · 0 0

Well, if he's a tall guy, use a ladder and ask him to keep still, if he's a midget just jump over him....

Hold on, I just understood your question... Okay, you can't. Just cherish the memory and enjoy yourself.
You might wanna spot yourself one of those powerful, shiny vibrator thingys while you wait for your next love.
If you wanna go the hate route though, I suggest buying a plastic doll, getting his face drawn on it and sticking pins in it occasionally.
Oh, and work on whatever it was that made him dump you.

2006-08-01 08:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by monotol 3 · 0 0

dontr date someone else just to get over your ex. Enjoy more time with frinds and family. Take up new hobbies spend time doing things which you neglected when u were in the relationship

2006-08-01 08:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by MrHorse 2 · 0 0

remember hes an ex for a reason, something must have been wrong , so you need to look at those reasons, and see why things probably would never work, and be able to put closure on it yourself, only then can you move on ..

2006-08-01 08:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0 0

If you find a good answer give me a shout. I Broke up with my girlfriend last year and still not over it. Doesn't help when people tell you to pull yourself together either!

2006-08-01 08:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by simon p 2 · 0 0

That really depends on a lot of things. The history, the relationship, you as a person etc. No short answers for this one.

2006-08-01 08:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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