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i dont think that i am stuck up but this one guy told me i act like i am. i am not mean or anything. what am i doing wrong?

2006-08-01 07:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Maybe you're just naturally reserved. Many people mistake shy or reserved people for "stuck up" people, especially during the teen years.

2006-08-01 08:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 1 2

You look down on others.
You don't give guys the time of day(constant attention on them).
You only think of yourself and don't give to others.
You neglect your friends' or boyfriend's needs to tend to your own all the time.
You are the most important person in the universe, everybody else is not as important.
You ignore the poor or downtrodden and turn your nose up at them.
You don't have a lot of friends, but the ones you do have, either worship you or just follow you around like you are a queen.
You are superior to others one way or the other and people don't like you.
You are hated because you don't fit the current trend or groups.
You don't sleep around with a lot of guys and are shy.
The list is endless. Just be you and keep living.

2006-08-01 15:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by shestory1 2 · 1 0

one sign to show you are stuck up is if you see someone in the street who happens to homeless and unemployed as a result, you look straight past them as if they don't exist or you treat them like a piece of sh*t that you wipe from your shoes.
or if you only date a guy who has a a car and money for example.
if you see a guy in a bar or anywhere and you make snap judgments based on the clothes that person happens to be wearing. You may think you are superior to that person just because of how that person dresses compared to you.

but in the end you have to live with you, no one else has to. so if you can live with yourself don't worry what other people think. you should be yourself at all times. ok this may result in you being unhappy and left single or dating only the real idiots of this world but that is life. no one ever gets everything they want out of life.

2006-08-01 15:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 1 0

When I was younger everyone thought that I was stuck up because I was very shy and did not talk much. I did not mix with other kids in school because of my shyness. That might be a sign for you.

2006-08-01 15:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you can be stuck up without being flat out mean. How do you think of yourself? If you think you're hot, all the guys want you, and that you're God's gift to men, then chances are your ego needs some shattering.

2006-08-01 15:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0 0

Guys in school called me stuck up only because I didn't sleep around with them ... or date them ... !

I think since I'm an attractive girl they took that as me being too good for them ... being shy in school labeled me as stuck up ... I wouldn't take everything people tell you to heart .... they might just be insecure about them-self .... !

Don't worry what people say about you ... as long as you're happy with who you are then screw them .... be yourself and enjoy life ... it's too short to worry about the mean people in life .. !

2006-08-01 15:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A lot of times people mistake shy people for stuck up people. If you're quiet, people usually think it's 'cause you think you're too good to talk to them. Or, if you really are selective about who you talk to.

2006-08-01 15:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 0 0

Nothing people think I am stuck up because they think I am a snobby rich girl and I'm not rich and I'm not stuck up or snobby lol not everything people say is true

2006-08-01 15:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie Lee 3 · 1 0

I think you mean "signs." The best thing you can do is to not act as if you think you are better than other people. Other than that, don't let other people's judgments of you control your life.

2006-08-01 15:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 1 0

did you turn him down? if so, then thats why he said it. if not, then maybe you are, just a little. but who cares, just make sure you take other people into consideration when you act or speak, and this wont be a problem

2006-08-01 15:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0 0

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