2006-08-01 07:54:51 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it will take much much longer to be in love with someone. months years weeks !
2006-08-01 07:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just chemicals. Lust. Yes it is normal. It is that spark that most people must have to have a long-term relationship. Just don't jump on him. Men respect someone who knows she is worth waiting for until she is ready.
It can turn into love if you take your time, and get to know each other before you hop into the sack. If you act on lust, and THEN find out you are not compatible, it is very painful to give up good sex for a good relationship.
Know each other means, does he like coffee? Or tea? or meth?Is he a Lakers fan, or hates sports, and thinks you are dumb to watch?
Does he whistle when napping. Does he look at other girls when he is talking to you? Does he have a crazy mother? Pedophile brother?
Does he want to be a lawyer or a serial killer or on welfare?
Does he think you are too dumb to be a doctor? Or thinks you should work out? Does he enjoy kids? Is he cranky when driving? Does he have any illnesses you need to know about?
If the answers to these questions PLEASE you, and are something you could live with for a LONG LONG time-
AND your answers please him, then you might have love- one of these days.
Otherwise, all you'll ever have is sex, and that is not enough to get you through the easy times, much less the hard times.
Treat this man like the best thing that has ever happened to you, and you don't want to mess this up. Ask him to answer your questions. It should take about 15 dates to get them all out. If he is patient and loving to you, he just might be the right one.
If he has given up on getting in your pants by then, he was just a user. Good riddance.
Then if you still like him, go for it. Good luck.
2006-08-01 08:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it depends upon how old you are.
I met someone after m,y marriage broke up, when I was 31 and she was 30. We fell in love after 3 dates, got engaged after 3 months, married after 10 months, and 11 years later have a daughter and another on the way.
The key thing is, we had both had bad relationships before, and knew what to look for in a new partner.
2006-08-01 07:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by spiegy2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two days is a long time to fall in love..I fallen in love in just a glance total of 3 Minuit's until i sad my first hello ..to gather 9 years
2006-08-01 08:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal to be in love, no.
Normal to be in something else? Perhaps. You can't know enough about a person in two months, let alone two days to be in "love" with them. You need to substitute another "L" word for love, which would be lust.
2006-08-01 07:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to these other people. they dont know what love is about! it is possible to love someone in three hours. if this person loves you back, go for it. i met my wife and told her that i loved her the second day and i have been happy in our marriage ever since. what you feel is ALSO lust but it CAN be love....
why not give it a chance.
2006-08-01 08:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by david r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're in love? You may just be really infatuated. Though on the other hand I'm sure everyone falls in love at different rates. Good luck I hope he feels the same way xxx
2006-08-01 07:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by ainsleyrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's perfectly normal. you're talking about having fallen in love not loving the person... you can fall in love in an instant, of course really loving the person happens later, that is what needs to develop but the whole being excited and having butterflies in your stomach... of course that is being in love, this is the way it happens to me, if i fall in love i do at first sight, if it does not happen in the first moment it won't ever happen i might like that person then but that is all...i say just enjoy it and good luck !
2006-08-01 08:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but your not in love yet... U can't fall in love in just 2 days... Give it time thenyou will really know if you love him... IT's too early to even know... You must be like 12 since you asked that
2006-08-01 07:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋