when u have a job and u feel anti social....what do u do
2006-08-01 07:54:36 · 17 answers · asked by angeleyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Soak in a bath with some bubbles, dry off with a big fluffy towel, spray on my favorite perfume, put on my favorite pj's, and get out some of my favorite toys!
2006-08-01 08:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, at least u acknowledge the problem: anti-social. how do u fix it? u gotta Try. work on urself, ur self confidence, and slowly u will stop being scared of what other people think. if u feel bad about ur appearance, work on it! exercise, get fit/tone/healthy. if u don't like ur hair, get a new look, or try different shampoos/conditioners. if u don't like ur skin, go to a dermalogist or experiment at sephora or wal-mart. if u don't like ur clothes, try out some new styles. key is DON'T BE SCARED of what people think of u! u probably feel that others will think ur stupid by trying to look better.... well who cares about them?? do whatever u need to do to feel good about urself.. ask some close friends/family to give u a makeover, or go shopping togehter. do u feel like u have nothing to say?? start studying, read up on current events, read books, talk w/ people in class.... once u start working on urself and ur confidence, u will realize that u have a voice, have something important to say, and that you are WORTH talking to!! that way, when u meet some guys, u won't just get w/ somoene cuz ur lonely, u'll have ur PICK to find the Right one. someone who can make u feel beautiful, happy, and supported, and that u can do the same for him. don't depend on a guy to make u happy.. work on ur relationships w/ people, w/ ur family, friends, strangers, and u will realize that life is about YOU as well as having a partner to share it with. be whole, and u will be able to give more to someone, instead of depending on them to "fix" you.
2006-08-01 15:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do stuff for yourself like go shopping, read a book, take a bubble bath with a glass of wine, surf the web, sign up for online dating sites, and get out of the house and make yourself sociable. The only way you are going to find another boyfriend is if you get out of the house and do something about it. There is a guy out there just as lonely looking for someone like you. Go find him!
2006-08-01 14:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by blonde0001-999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any close friends that you hang out with see if they know anyone who would be good for you that they can introduce you to. That happened to me. I'm shy & not a big people person, therefore I didn't have luck w/ guys & was lonely quite a bit. Some close friends of mine thought of someone & it turned out great because we have alot of stuff in common & have the same type of personality. Him & I have been together about 2 months now.
2006-08-01 15:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about all the jerks out there that you're NOT dating while being conservative and playing your hand for someone nice. He'll eventually show up, but he probably won't be the FedEx guy with a package. It might be hard with a busy work schedule, but resolve to take some "me" time to discover your neighborhood, or something you haven't done. Mr. Right might be hanging out there.
2006-08-01 15:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a date with your friends to go shopping or have a girls night out or go to the mall and scope for cute guys or go clubing theres lots at the clubs.
2006-08-01 15:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No clue...im sorry. I am in the exact same situation. Try eating some chocolate that always helps.
2006-08-01 14:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kara S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a self pleasure chatroon on yahoo. Its free and pretty harmless--nice peole and gets u what u need. My fav room is rm #1--try it u may like it
2006-08-02 09:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way except I am a guy and have no girlfriend so welcome to the club. If you need to talk you can im me as long as you are of age.
2006-08-01 14:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by captainccc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell yourself that you dont need a boyfriend to hav fun. go hang out with friends or go to cedar point or something
2006-08-01 15:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋