its been a great 2 months that we have been together. i would like to move in with him in the next couple months and see how it works out. i just dont like leaving to go home every night.
How do i approach this with him? whats teh best way? should i bring it up casual and see what he says?
2006-08-01 07:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pretend that u fall asleep in his place at night... after a period of time... u will notice if he wants to live with a girlfriend.... if he does... then tell him that u think u r wasting ur money on the rent... then ask him if u guys should live together...
i did this to my bf about 2 years ago... and he was actually the one who asked me to move in after i slept there for 2 weeks... but i dunno what type of guy ur bf is... so it might not work on him...
hope this helps
2006-08-01 07:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by theooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Do it. If you both love each other that much, marry him!
Don't let your wet panties cause you to start down that slippery slope!
Try reading the negative issues being written about that subject in this forum, too there are many other forums filled with the same negative issues and children having to pay the price.
The woman's personal made misery is of no concern, they always know it all until the child comes and he splits or he splits because he wants something new. The child has to pay over and over and over again because of the immaturity of two people playing adult!
Don't you females ever learn? How many examples do you need? So many of you are out there with your butt showing, some with no draws on, your breast nearly hanging out and a ribbon for a shirt. For what reason? To appeal to a mans penis?
This is the point you go from into a relationship! No this is the point that we use to get a quick FU$%, for a little while, until its time to try out a different one!
Keep your self respect and dignity lady. If he wants you it should be for keeps, not for the length of time it takes for his penis to be softened!.
2006-08-01 15:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice from personal experience: Don't do it. Don't move in together. Trust me. Might seem fine and dandy after 2 beautiful months, but trust me it would be worth all those miles you put on your car if you didn't move in together. Moving in together is a HUGE step - huge. Good luck with whatever you do but I do not suggest it. I have been there done that and now will wait til I either have been with them for at least a few years or marriage to move in with my next significant other.
2006-08-01 14:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by love earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been with my man for a lil over a month now, he kinda lives here, we have very open relationship and we talk about everything.
we both 24yrs, i have 3 kids, and he works during the day, but we havn't spent a night apart in 3-4weeks now. i have school at night, he helps with them when im gone.
watch for the honeymoon phase, it lasts about 4-9mths, then you will see who he realy is, if you can live through that you can live through everything. I know my honeymoon phase is usualy over at 3mths, get to know what you want, and if he is definitly it.
bring it up casualy, see how he reacts and wing it from there. If he seems honest, and sincere, beieve him, but dont rely on us, trust yourself to do what you think is right in such a delicate situation.
2006-08-01 15:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is too soon to move in together
2006-08-01 14:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by lazy bastard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u only been dating for two months? sshit you must be thirsty then
2006-08-01 14:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by hejhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait a while. you would be an extra mouth to feed and he might not be able to afford it.
2006-08-01 14:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's to soon.
2006-08-01 14:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋