my bf wants me to ....?

Question

my bf wants me to strip for him. He's seen me naked plently of times but for some reason Im really scared to do this. what should i do to get over these nerves?

Answer 1

do it any way because mostlikely your nervous about what he will think about what you are doin or the way your dancing but the truth is , that hes gunna like it no matter whut... your his girl dancin for him, he'll be lovin it

Answer 2

I think you should do it....That is if you want to keep him out the strip club or in the hands of someone who will.......

Try getting a black light (they are dark enough to feel confident but light enough so he sees everything)

I mean I'm not saying to go above and beyond to full fill his fantasy's because after all he is (boyfriend not husband) but this is not a request that involves any bodily damage and I think would actually be a good way to show him that you care about his needs.....

Answer 3

Watch some strip movies and practice in front of a mirror 2 see if your doing it right! He will love u even if things don't go like plan. Have fun!

Answer 4

I think that is so cute.I asked my man to do it for me and he did.I don't think there is nothing to be scared about.I think you should dim the lights put on some sexy music,sexy nighty and go for it!!Be glad he isn't asking you to bring a stripper home!That he's not out there seeing them and remember he wants to see YOU and only you.You can get over those nerves.You got to spice it up a little.Why don't you ask him to do it one night?I told my man that the sexiest thing in the world to me when we first started going out was to see a man in the kitchen making breakfast naked with his boots on.He said that's crazy!I thought he would be too shy to do it but one morning I got up and there he was cooking naked with his timbs on.He can't cook worth a damn that was 9 years ago.He did that because he loved me.I'm sure he would do it for you so don't be shy shake that money maker girl and find a pole to grab.

Answer 5

If he's seen you in the buff before, and he's obviously not complaining, then it shouldn't be that awkward to strip. All stripping is is just being nude at a slower pace. That's how I would think of it anyway

Answer 6

It is just part of his sexual fantasy. Don;t give in to him so easily. just tell him he has to wait awhile and it will be more special. On the other hand he has already seen you naked so this could be his version of how he wanted the first time to have been like.

Answer 7

Then you have already chosen to be his unpaid prostitute? Well, I guess if that's how you want to live your life, that's fine.

But wouldn't you rather have a man who would honor you as you are, respect your opnions, have integrity where you would be able to not be ashamed that you are doing things that abase and shame you as a person? Someone who truly loved you and held you above all other women on earth---and someone who would make you his wife, and not just his prostitute?

Answer 8

Practice at first when you are all alone. Put on some good music, whatever you want to wear and use a broom handle to practice with. Once you have your routine down maybe you will feel more secure doing it for him.

Answer 9

there's no reason you should feel nervous if you've already been naked for him. Maybe just try to laugh with it, make it kinda a funny thing. That would probably make it a lot less awkward.

Answer 10

Just because he has seen you naked doesn't mean that you should feel comfortable doing exotic things. Take it slow only do things at your pace. Good luck on your situation.

Answer 11

There really isn't a way to get over the nerves, but if you don't want to do it tell him he'll have to understand. But other than that i think you should do it if it turns him on. have fun!!