What do you think of...?

Question

no kissing before "I DO"....

Answer 1

thunder_kok says go ahead and try it. have a blast.

Answer 2

The only way I can see that working is you marry the person less then 2 months after you start seeing eachother. Got to wonder though maybe the person has something that dont want to pass on to you. Before now i have never heard of no kissing before taking the plunge only no sex. No kissing is a little out there.

Answer 3

Stupid!
I think it is very important to know as much about a person as you can before you get married, including how they are at that time of the month, and how they act when sick, angry ,excited, and lazy. You need to know the families, their friends, their hobbies, their faults, and weaknesses. You need to know how they handle money, and what they believe about gods, kids, and political issues.
If you marry someone you have not had sex with, then you don't know them well enough to marry them.
This should take at least a year-sometimes 2 or 3.
This is not to say that you should be dropping your pants every time someone says they like you. This is not to kiss anybody anytime. Your body is the only one you get. It's got to last you about 80 years. You don't want to spend half of it sick. Take care of it.

Answer 4

I think that a kiss is a powerful intimate expression. A kiss can only be shared by two people. Once you touch your lips upon another's lips, you are connected emotionality and you know your honest feeling about them and you can feel their feeling for you. If you stop and really think about it, you can feel your soul becoming intertwined with their soul. I think waiting to "kiss" until you say I do, would be a mistake. I think this is the only form of intimacy that a unmarried couple can share in. To be totally sure of who you are looking for in life, will begin with a "kiss".

Answer 5

Are you trying to torture the human population? You realize by people actually having to marry before kissing, is like asking for 80% of the population to end up in divorce, which is btw, 30% more is already happening on a yearly basis!!

Answer 6

I think that you should definitly go by no sex before marriage but if you never kiss then how will you really know if you love each other passionatly? I think kissing is the door to your soul and if your thinking about marriage but she wont even let you kiss her then either it's to soon or that door to her soul is closed and you aint gonna get a yes to "will you marry me?"

what is you age anyways?

Answer 7

that is crazy I heard a guy say him and his wife didn't kiss before the kiss the bride which is nuts what if you marry someone that sucks or tastes bad or I don't know but you totally should test out all the merchandise before you sign the contract

Answer 8

I'm all about restricting heavy sexual contact before marriage [anything beyond kissing, hugging, and holding hands really] but it should be a gradation, not occurring all at once. This will give you to enjoy these experiences in their proper contexts.

Answer 9

It doesn't matter any way. Kissing is no big deal. Maybe no 'french kissing' before I do would be cool.

Answer 10

In Asian countries, that is true sometimes, but this is USA; it's all good. This "no kissing before 'I Do'" is getting more antiquated by the minute.

Answer 11

I think that is lame.... I have kissed a few guys that were just awful and if I had to live with that forever i think we would prolly fight cuz I would have to tell him how yucky it was...