2006-08-01 07:32:08 · 32 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said that it was cause he did not feel da same as he used to and i can fix dat by seening lot more........and i do not knoe if he has another chick but i doubt it..... and now i feel more lonely......what people here on anwers live in:ORANGE COVE,CA????
i am used to feeled love by him and that is what makes me sad da most!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please help me!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-01 10:39:32 · update #1
You first have to figure out if he wants to be back in a relationship with you. If you force someone into something that they don't want to be in then you are doomed from the start. Figure out what broke you guys up in the first place and see if its something that can be fixed.
2006-08-01 07:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Needanswer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first you have to make sure if that's what you really want.....the relationship is really over for a reason. If it's because of another girl being in the pic, then you should want to save your self respect and dignity and move on. He should only want you!! If another girl is not the reason, you must sit with him and figure out whats causing the relationship to fail. Pay attention to what he has to say because he's the one who wants out! Don't use this opportunity to blame him for things he's done to you. This will back fire on you. And do go psycho like my ex girlfriend and keep his possessions hostage just to get him back. He'll just loose more respect for you.
2006-08-01 07:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by johnblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should ask him if there is any chance that you will get back together. If he says yes then you can either wait until he is ready to get back together or just move on.
My bf broke up with me 1 day before it would have been 5 months of being together and I wanted him back but I decided i could do better than him and moved on. I'm alot happier now that i'm not waiting for him to say he wants to get back together.
2006-08-01 07:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by ricky90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did say he broke up with you right?????
Well if that was the case then ask yourself why on earth would you want someone who does not want you?
Who ever said love hurts was right on point...and if you feel the need to win the losers affection back then I suppose talking to him would help along with space and establishing a friendship before just jumping back into a dead end relationship ;-)
2006-08-01 07:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by OhSoJazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cried only a little then i got my music and went for a walk my suggestion around the block or neighborhood or park somewhere peacful then i think i just let it blow over and u should to bc thts the best thing to do then maybe later if u think its write and havent gotten over it and u think u guys r still rite for each other and u still rly like him try working things out if he dosent want u bak ur gonna have to get over it and find another guy im sorry
2006-08-01 07:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him.. And if that don't work just leave him alone and pretend that it doesn't bother you anymore.. Hand out with your friends and it will help you alot and get ur mind off of him... And believe me if he don't take you back then he's not worth wasting your time with waiting.. There are more Guys out there so don't worry...
2006-08-01 07:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a very good idea to bring your EX back, I understand why you want him back because all the good things that attracted you to him, but trust the things that broke you guys up will still be there waiting for you. You weren't able to deal with them, you won't be able to deal with them in the future either...
2006-08-01 07:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by A Kicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to figure out why he broke up with you. If you did something, go up and apologize to him. If he just doesn't want to be with you anymore you would just have better luck finding a new bf who would like you better for who you are. Hope it all works out. ;)
2006-08-01 07:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by pup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Just Never Want Him Back
Period
2006-08-01 07:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worth it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Get over him and you will see this. All things work out for the best!
2006-08-01 07:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Fabio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋