my boyfriend is very much annoyed and jealous...has stopped contacting me as he had told me earlier...that he is very jealous types and if he sees me with any guy he will break off. i was found doing salsa with another guy n he banged the door on me. now its been one and a half month he hasnt contacted me. he sent 2 mesgs those also of slapping me etc. QUESTON...1.WIL HE FORGET ME OR HAS FORGOTTEN ME?? 2.IS IT BEEN TOO LONG THAT WE ARENT TALKING OR ITS FINE FOR JEALOUS KIND OF GUYS TO GET OVER THEIR JEALOUS.....?3. DOES HE THING OF ME OR NEVER I COME TO HIS MIND...IF YES , 4.THEN Y DOESNT HE CONTACT ME???I HAVENT CONTACTED HIM SINCE 20 DAYS NOW, I IGNORE HIM BUT AT HEART AM DYING TO TALK TO HIM BUT I DONT SHOW
2006-08-01 07:31:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a threat to me....a bomb waiting to explode! Guys who do things like that are unstable...he could definitely hurt you. If you're lucky he has forgotten. I think since you have contacted him and vice versa...it's time to just move on to a guy who won't hit you...ugh!
2006-08-01 07:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ans 1)no he cant forget u and if he does then he never loved u.
Ans 2)no its not been too long i have seen people meeting again after years i think yes it is easy for these type of guys
Ans3)do u know gal why most of the relationships break its just bcos of only one word "sorry" if u miss that guy so much than cant u ask a simple thing sorry as u should know that u have commited a mistake and he made it clear from beginning that this is the type of guy he is so who's mistake is this, its obviosly urs and if u love him and u are badly missing him than cant u ask just a simple sorry how shameful is that
comment) see gal when u are in relationship u have to bend sometimes or it would cause the end of ur relationship its just a matter of a single word
2006-08-01 14:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by aks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to forget you. Guys that are of the jealous type don't change unless they make an effort to, which even then is doubtful. He's constantly thinking about you. He's jealous and insecure. Keep strong, and move on. He'll come back when he realizes you're happy without him.
2006-08-01 14:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this guy laying down on a bed when you were "salsa-ing" on top of him? If not, as simple as calling him, make the first move. Hey are you busy tonight? I was thinking if we can go see a movie or something? Then talk it out in the open, be honest. Good luck.
2006-08-01 14:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probabli is having trouble contacting you after he saw you dancing with another guy. Obviously you should be able to dance with whoever you want, but if you know that he is so jealous you obviuosly can't keep away from other guys. So he isn't the right guy for you, just leave him he will be okay.
2006-08-01 14:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by milained 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not concern yourself with people who dont want to know you and make it completely obvious they dont want to know you.
This boy has a very jealous streak and thats dangerous,jealousy can bring all kinds of problems if your with some-one like this.
Maybe you have had a lucky escape from this boy.
If he wont contact you and wants you to contact him then hes playing the controlling game and again this can cause you many many severe problems including abuse both mental and physical.
Maybe you should forget this boy and concentrate on what you really want out of life.
Anyone who has a jealous streak is a danger,stay away and try to move on.
2006-08-01 14:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds to me like you're better off without him. Jealousy comes from being insecure and it seems like that is his problem. The threats of slapping you are the threats of a bully, leave before it gets worse. Good luck.
2006-08-01 14:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change a person's character. If he's jealous now, he'll always be jealous. Same goes for the "slapping me" part ! COME ON! Why would you want to be with somebody who threatens to hit you???? Please, forget him and find a nice guy.
2006-08-01 14:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Emmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very immature of your boyfriend to be acting the way he is. You need to move on because overly jealous people only get worse. Nice of him hitting you with the door. What is next, is he going to hit you with his fist?
2006-08-01 14:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is easier said then done, but someone that jealous you should not bother with. He tries to control you by withholding love and affection and that is not right.
I would say his loss and find someone who makes you happy without fear of breaking up with you all the time.
2006-08-01 14:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋