ok so im guy im 17.. and i was best friends with this 17 year old girl .she said she didnt like me more then a friend but i ask her out like 3 times she said no but we still stay as best friends ( when i was best friends with her .. i was like the the nicest guy to her and she loved that and i did everything for her but she liked to played with my feelings bc i was so in loved and i was scared to loss her if i said something bad.. i know im stupid).. . we got into a fight 2 months ago.. we stoped talking and she knew i loved her but she told me to stop talkking to her bc she said i was a jerk when i wasnt.. so we didint talk anymore and she broke my heart. so 2 months passed by without talking during that time i found a gf a ... but this last weekend me and her (my ex best friend) hang out again we kissed not maked out, while i was in a fight with my real gf .. the day i hang out with her i kissed her (ex bff) on the lips and she was alright with it. so then that night she(ex bff) calls me drunk and tells me that she was hanging out with a guy and she hooked up with one so i was like okk w/e... then she tell me "im drunk but u know that drunk ppl tell the truth.. so the truth is that i love you i love you and u are the one. inever felt anything likes this before plzz go out with me and we should get married i always loved but when i sober i dont want to accept it that i love u " so i said yeah lets go out.. so we went on for like 4 hours telling me she loves me and told me about all her life and other guys.. and she told me that i love my gf.. but i told her nooo... blahh blah coz im fighting with her.. so the next day.. i asked her if she meant what she said last night.. and she yeah..but she is confused and blahh.. and i was y u confused.. and she said coz i like this other guy too.. but he treats me bad .. thats y im confused. i told her i can brake up with my gf that way there is nothing stopping me from going out with you.. so i broke up with her( my ex gf was alright with it) so the girl i kissed can go out with me. but she said give me time. so im giving her time.i think she is trying to play with me.. so idk what to do.. what kind of move to make or what should i be doing??
2006-08-01 07:24:36 · 10 answers · asked by soccer dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-B!tchslaps- Quit being a wussy nice guy!
2006-08-01 07:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man this chick as you wrapped around her pinky so freaking tight you can't see straight. This chick is playing you. She is keeping you for when things don't work out for her. Of course she likes you but not enough for when it comes down to the fact you broke up with your gf (stupid choice) she can't make a choice of what she wants to do. I say MOVE on. Loose her as a friend. She doesn't sound that good of a friend anyways. Plus if the only time she can talk about her "True" feelings is when she is drunk I would really think about that. Hell when one is drunk they normally talk about things and do things they shouldn't. Hell why do you think so many have one night stands? Because there drunk and when they wake up they say to themselves, what the hell did I just do?? Then they never hear from them again.....so move on!
2006-08-01 14:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ur stupid but only because ur in luv.. luv makes u do stupid and idiotic things.. 1st of all she told u she only wanted to be ur friend-u should've accepted it for what it was and moved on... she didn't play u and u being there for her is what BEST FRIENDS do..
Now u meet a girl and wound up leaving her because u might have a chance w/ur best friend cause she was drunk when she told u that she might want to be w/u and now ur gonna just sit and wait til she makes up her mind.. Okay now that's stupid, if she luves u then she wouldn't need to think about anything and then u and her could just deal w/the consequences of losing ur friendship if this doesn' t work...
i say move on and find someone else who won't make u wait..
2006-08-01 14:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that ur stupid. This is kind of similar to my situation (check it out.) But yeah, when u feel that way, it does make u do crazy things. No1 likes the feeling of being confused or played with. The advice that was given to me was that i should just find some1 else who wouldn't take me through all of that mess and can like me everyday instead of every blue moon. I'm working on it. Maybe u should 2.
Peace n Love!!
2006-08-01 14:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that someone who took that much space to write so little really should continue to follow this girl around and be her personal whipping boy. She will continue to use and abuse you which is exactly what you need. In the end, she will certainly come to her senses and end up giving to you more hell as she walks out of your life realizing that she has wasted time on such a wimp.
Of course, you will be doing all of us guys a favor by keeping this selfish wench away from us.
Thanks....
2006-08-01 14:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing you. she didnt like the fact that you had another girlfriend because she wants you to be in love wit her and do everything for her. if her feelings are genuine and she does love you then she will leave her bf (especially if he treats her bad) and she will come to you. you give her the choice. tell her to choose you as her bf or to leave and not talk to you again! and that maybe someday you two can talk again but right now would be best not to talk. dun let her b in charge!
2006-08-01 14:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy... that is so sad...
well, if i was her, i'd want you to sit me down and have a nice long talk about all the serious stuff. a girl wants nothing but honesty and if she can get that and a long understanding talk, she would most likely go with you.
give it a try if you haven't. hope i helped
2006-08-01 14:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by yehaw_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really playing with ur feelings then you shouldn't even accept her as a friend anymore. but u should wait and see how things work out.
2006-08-01 14:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by aznfobboytly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with her...she's a b****
She's playing....
She doesn't love you...
Don't be a nice guy...
2006-08-01 14:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Alzin Dorain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget everything and just go with your friend!!
2006-08-01 14:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by MISTAKN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋