i was talking to my bf the day before and i told him ill call him tomorrow bacause i wanted to go to sleep so i didnt call him the next day because i was with my family so now he doesnt answer my call and he texted me that he heared that i was with some other guy that day and that is why i didnt call him!what do i do!
2006-08-01 07:06:53 · 25 answers · asked by onlygodcanjudgeme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him you got caught up and u were doing some family stuff.. if he doesnt believe you dnt even waste your time ne more andddd why the f is he so damn clingy anyways.
2006-08-01 07:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by <33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually depends on how well he trusts you. A good bond is important to some people. If they feel the bond isn't strong enough yet, they might get paranoid that you are cheating even when you're not. If you haven't been with him very long, like a week or less, he might feel the bond hasn't got strong enough yet, especially if he didn't trust you in the beginning or had some doubts about you and in some cases he may have failed to mention them to you. Not all guys will mention everything they feel if they don't trust you or got use to you yet.
2006-08-01 14:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by 11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait another day... that ought to send him right around the bend for good. Let us know what happens. You could get a lot of mileage out of this one!!!! LOL!!! (idea #1: call him up... when he answers, keep saying "hello? hello? hello?" Then say into the phone "I didn't think the a**hole would answer anyway" AND HANG UP!!! ha ha ha ha !!!!!!!!! (Be sure you visit him in the mental hospital afterwards though. It'd be the kind thing to do).
(idea #2: call him up... before he can even say hello, scream "LISTEN [some other name than his], IF YOU DON'T CALL ME IMMEDIATELY, I AIN'T SLEEPING WITH YOU, OR THE REST OF THE FOOTBALL TEAM FOR THAT MATTER, TONIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!! AS A MATTER OF FACT, I'M SOORY NOW THAT I EVER SLEPT WITH THE CHESS TEAM!!!!" and hang up immediately!!!!! YEEEOWWWW!!!! again, be sure to visit him in the mental hospital!!!
Please do this!!
2006-08-01 14:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i have to ask you how old are you. you see I'm 28 Ive been married to my husband for 1 yr. and we've been together for a long time and we have three kids together. that petty stuff i used to do to him a long time ago. and he put me in my place about it . your boyfriend seems very insecure. you need to let him know that you are not going to tolerated that kind of crap from him. let him know that your family comes first than he comes next. ask him why is he so worried about what you are doing and that he shouldn't listen to what other people are saying about you. my motto is if hes questioning your fidelity he feels guilty about what hes doing or did. write me back let me know what you think.
2006-08-01 14:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by super mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly trusts you then he'll know there was a perfectly reasonable explanation for why you didn't call him.. If he doesn't trust you he'll start assuming stuff.... if he can't understand then this is just the beginning of his jealous, insecure rampage, it doesn't get any better it just gets worse.
2006-08-01 14:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bella xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he can't handle that you are busy for one day, than maybe you should just should call him anymore. Tell him then if he wants to talk from now on, he can call you.
2006-08-01 14:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by mydirtylittleself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he sounds like a girl. Throwing a stupid hissy fit and making up assumptions b/c of one missed ****** call. Tell hiim to get over himself already. You were busy. It's simple. It HAPPENS. Gosh.
2006-08-01 14:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. Anyone who is that controlling and insecure is not worth the trouble.
2006-08-01 14:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by thejen_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to scratch his a$$ and get glad . Who is he to cop an attitude with you , he doesn't own you . Get away from him fast if he's that needy or clingy ,, you don't need it . That kind of relationship only ends in disaster .. RUN !!!!
2006-08-01 14:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He's obviously too insecure and easily way too jealous to have a healthy relationship with you.
2006-08-01 14:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋