shes a great person when shes not using iam pretty devestated by this she is prostuting to supply her habit is there anything i can do to get her to stop???
2006-08-01 06:56:03 · 17 answers · asked by parkavemike 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
The old saying goes, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." How into this relationship are you? Do you want to continue like this? Do you think this is what your life is to consist of? Are you open to whatever she brings home to your bed when she prostitutes?
Apparently you care for her, but she has to care for herself too, you can't do it all for her. With that thought, consider the questions I left you with, think about them, come to a decision, and go from there. The only person who is going to help her, is herself. You can choose to stick with her and ride this rollercoaster for however long or for the rest of her life, or you can hope off the ride and go on with your life. When you become consumed with her life and her problems become your problems, your life quits, it stops dead in the water, it sucks your life force out of you. Think about that one also.
2006-08-01 07:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying she is prostituting to GO BACK to the drug habit she hasn't been on in a year and a half? And are these warrants drug related or criminal related?
She has two choices 1) try to go on the straight and narrow with society meaning perhaps an intervention is in order (Be careful, these people could be linked to authorities) AND see if she can resolve these warrants (An attorney may be in order) meaning whatever fines or jail time to be rectified; or 2) go underground and avoid them meaning staying out of society for perhaps several years or more.
For you? offer her your support in whatever path she chooses, either one will NOT be simple. If she goes back to the habit though, you may want to reconsider Plan 1. She could be dealing with more pressure than she's making you aware of; By entering into prostitution she may be feeling a need to earn some fast money.
2006-08-01 07:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Hayseedless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused. Is she still using? Prostituting? See my previous answer. I feel for you man. You seem very distraught. If she has warrants, I say you anonymously call the cops and turn her in. For her own good. What kind of drugs is she using? There is a high recidivism rate with certain types of drug activity. There is hope for you. You know that what she is doing is wrong. I would run far away from her. A broken heart is like the flu....it will pass. Peace.
2006-08-01 07:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anonymously turn her in to the police. That'll take care of the outstanding warrants. While in prison, hopefully she'll kick the drug habit and be clean as long as she is in prison.
I would reconsider her as a girlfriend also.
2006-08-01 07:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by JAMMco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs professional help and must fight to change. There is nothing you can do except never have unprotected sex with her for your safety.
Is she still prostituting? If so why if she is really clean. Drug addicts are liars in order to survive. I strongly recommend you get out of the relationship while you can as you can get easily sucked into her misery.
Only she can change herself.
2006-08-01 07:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is prostituting herself I dont think she is a great person and anyway, what are the warrants for? did she not do something she promised to do? (like go to court)
the warrants are not for
"not being a great person" so even if she is "a great person" that is no defense
get a lawyer and deal with the warrants
2006-08-01 07:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anything you can do to get her to stop? NO!!!!
There is absolutely nothing you can do. The more you try the more heartache, dispair and disaster you will experience. Until she is ready to take the steps to stop and SHE takes those steps she will be going down that road to self destruction and will take everyone she can along with her.
These are harsh words but I know they are true.
2006-08-01 07:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've know people in my life like that, got strung out for different reasons, Vietnam, just because they were a bit wild. Sorry to say, they are all dead. None of them lived much past their 40s, and most died in their mid 20s.. I was just lucky I didn't like drugs that much!
2006-08-01 07:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn her in. Maybe when she gets out of jail the prostituting and drug will be all out of her system for good.
2006-08-01 07:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is time to turn her loose before you end up with an std or she ends up pregnant and you have to figure out if it is yours or it is from a trick.. and then have to figure out how to raise it.
2006-08-01 07:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋