I am 16 and I just found out that my boyfriend is 19 not 17. On top of that he is engaged to someome els. The only problem is that I love him.
2006-08-01 06:49:23 · 21 answers · asked by squeak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick him in the nuts!
2006-08-01 06:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy d 1 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Stand back and repeat slowly what you just said in your question: no, not all that rubbish about ages - the bit where you said that he has been treating you like an idiot, has been treating some other young lady as another idiot to whom he is engaged, that he told you lies and finally that he has been merely using you for some time. Love - I am afraid that you would not recognise it if it hit you between the eyes. Stop and think of it - if you were to marry him, what do you think he would be doing in five, ten, fifteen or more years time. Having affairs all over the place and still treating you like dirt. Kick his ar*se out of it and forget him, don't worry the pain will go away in a few days as soon as you realise how foolish you have been to have ever seen anything in him. Get yourself a new boyfriend who will treat you with respect.......
2006-08-01 13:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever get involved with anyone whos married, or in your case engaged. You are young, and things like those happen sometimes.
You will hear this over and over againg thoughout your life. Just enjoy.
Look, I'll give you half of my story. Here it goes. Still married to my 4yr old dtr's father. Living with my boyfriend and not happy, and I'm only 24. Does that help you atl all. Learn from other peoples mistakes if you can. We all can find someone who loves us back.
Ohhh and he will later come back to you and beggg to be with you some day or another. He wont be happy either with this other chick either. So when he does come back. Hahahah, enjoy it. You will then lauph.
Bye.
2006-08-01 13:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him go. If he didn't break it off with the other person, then he might not be that into you. It hurts, I know it hurts - so much you might not be able to breathe, but maybe if he sees that you value yourself enough to want to be a first choice, and not the runner up, he could change his mind about the other person. If you really stand up for yourself, start knowing that you matter, and you deserve to be loved 100%, not part time, you will find someone who knows what a valuable treasure you are, and not a consolation prize.
2006-08-01 13:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a hard thing to do, but you gotta let him go. He's hurting you when you dont deserve to be hurted. He lied to you about his age AND he's been seeing someone behind your back...better yet engaged. This guy isnt right for you. You deserve somebody who will make you fully happy, be honest and loyal to you. Someone who will stick by your side and be yours and only yours. If you just let him go, you'll find somebody better. It's the best thing you can do, for yourself. You can do it. Just have belief in yourself. You will be so glad you did in the end. Why put yourself through more hurt then you need to? You have the ability to choose your happiness...decide whats right.
2006-08-01 13:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get some one better! How could you be in love with a lying cheat like him? Also tell the person that he is engaged to because she deserves to know how much of a cheat she is with. Be a good person tell her. Wouldn't you want to know if you were going to marry a cheat? You could not even know him. He is a liar and you deserve better!
2006-08-01 13:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by princeessintraning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go he is to old an dhe lieyed to you. if he LOVED you then he would have told you the truth about being engaged but he lieyed about his age soo you wouldn't say no so maybe he loves oyu but if you love him baka nd you are willing to take hm away from someon ou loves him to then go for it but if not there are others out there that will do anything for you. dont worrry you will choose the right thing right.the answer is within the heart
you area goood person so you will do the right thing. i know it
2006-08-01 13:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by angelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you love a lying jerk who has promised himself to another, and still got with you?
Maybe you do love him, but he doesn't love anyone. Not you or her.
Dump him.
Find someone who deserves your love.
Someone who would not lie to you or cheat on you.
This guy is an a$$. He'll always be a liar. You don't need that drama.
Good luck
2006-08-01 13:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're 16. You got your whole life ahead of you to find love. You can't be with someone who lies. Lying about your age is one thing, but lying about being engaged? Come on now, that's crazy. You need to dump him and get on with your life. And oh yeah, make sure his fiance knows about what he did. That'll get him.
2006-08-01 13:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dangerous ground!!!! WARNING!! GET AWAY AS FAST AS POSSIBLE. I got married when I was 21 and believe me, I was a jeolous, bi-- tch when it came to girls coming near my guy. Don't get into that kind of relationship, you will only be a booty call, and you are better than that! After all he is cheating on you, or you are the "other" either way, BAD IDEA!!!
2006-08-01 13:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by T-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a trifeling dog is what he is. Tell that girl he is engaged to, he deserves it. Then keep you distance from him, to try to get over him. Hang out with your friends and hope the next guy that comes along ain't as grimey
2006-08-01 13:53:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋