Girls, would u feel offended??

Question

ok, so i showed my girl a video of a home movie, and she viewed my stored favorite clips of girls booty dancing. i know she's gets mad about it, but is it that bad? its just internet. ur thoughts about ur man, having dvds or things about other girls.

Answer 1

tell her to get over it, thats just what guys like to do. She needs to realize that. I go to my guys house all the time and he has half naked women all over his wall and magazines all over the bathroom. Its jus a fantasy. It's like a girl walking down a street and checking out a hott guy, ya kno. Well good lick with that, hope shes not a handful or its gna b hard to make her understand wea your comming from

Answer 2

If the "dvds and things" were before our relationship has started, then I wouldn't care, but if he goes on the internet and talks to girls or watch them booty dance on cam or something then that's bad. Why can't he just watch a porn or something. That's different.

Answer 3

Honestly, I think I'd be more offended about my boyfriend watching girls booty dance than him watching porn. I think porn is about the sex and getting turned on by it....I even watch it with him. But the booty dancing implies that you like the way THOSE girls shake it. You're actually paying attention to them, not the act. Make sense?

Don't show her your home movies if they offend her. If you show her girls she thinks looks better than her...she also might think that you think they look better than her...you could really make her feel bad about herself that way. Just take her feelings into account...trust me you don't want her getting pictures of guys who "measure up" and might be a little bigger than you right?

Answer 4

well all girls are different. If my boyfriend had porn videos laying around his room or on his computer or something, I would shrug it off, because in the end he's coming to the bed with me lol not them. Some girls though get highly offended and would probably be pissed off. Girls just sometimes feel like if their boyfriend is watching that, then they must not be good in bed. If your girlfriend doesn't like it, just explain to her why you do it and if she takes it the wrong way and you want to continue to watch those videos then you have to pick the videos or her because its not fair to either of you.

Answer 5

You are showing her your adulterous relationships with other women, is what you're doing. If you are wanting to prove to this person that you are wanting to be honest and have her "know everything about you," then that's good. But, first, you must learn who you are, what kind of man you are and what kind of man you want to be.

What you showed her is, "He won't be faithful to me because he looks at other women." And she is right. I believe she should get a way from you before you throw your sinful life style onto hers.

You showed her that you are not a man of honor who will honor her above all others; that you will not be faithful to her, not respect her, and you will not treat her as if she is a part of you----not just you sinful life.

She doesn't want that sin in her life. That's why she "gets mad." Her inner spirit throws up red flags and says, "Wait Just minute! I'm not going to be just another hooker or unpaid prostitute!"

Betrayal and infidelity come in all kinds of colors, sizes, and shapes. But the signs most subtle are shrouded in the phrase, "It's natural!" And you would be right. Our natural sinful selves is exactly what we have to put as far away from ourselves as possible and choose goodness over the "natural man."

Will you show her that you are honorable by those things? Will you show her you are strong in your convictions of how you want you life to be and what you want to influence your life and hers?

Answer 6

Shows a sign a insecurity, but if thats your girl, then you should respect her feelings and not push the issue.. Its about comprimise. Do you need to look at things like that when you have a real woman in front of you.. Yes, if you wouldn't respect my feelings no matter if I'm insecure in areas, then yes I would be offended..

Answer 7

If she gets mad about VIDEOS??? Dump the control freak!!! I worked at a video store, and about half of the PORNO we rented out was rented by women! Don't even let them try and make you think that they don't like porno too. (Don't be too surprised though when you find out she's not looking at the same thing in the video that you are)

Answer 8

well when i found a pervy mag unda my mans pillow i was angry because it makes u feel like ur not good enuf. to be quite honest if he was truly happy with me then he wouldnt need that trash but on the other hand he wasnt getting too serious with it he just shrugged it off saying it meant nothing. i ahte it tho when he has topless pics of girls on his fone as well.
i think u just need to make sure that she dusnt feel like u find that dancing more attractive than u find her.

Answer 9

I would feel like I was or I did something wrong for him to turn to though's things I want to be my mans only fantasy and not put up against other women over the net.

Answer 10

I am always offended by these thing IF I do not know they are there. The thing is that girls dont think that you are looking at other girls, so when we see stuff like that, it shocks us and we automatically react with anger. If my boyfriend tells me he has stuff like that, I dont even mention it later when I come across it. ANd if he comes to me and I dont like it, I let him know that it is too far, and he gets rid of it. Well... thats how it supposed to work... you'd have to ask him if it actually does.

Answer 11

If we watched them together it wouldn't be so bad I guess but I'm really not into those things anymore.I'm way beyond that stage.Maybe she feels she is not enough for you because you have and watch them.It's very hard to tell how or why she feels the way she does.Maybe if you explained to her why you want those it will help and maybe not.