Player??? or not???

Question

there is this guy named Marc i met like 4mnths ago and when we met we made it very clear to eachother that we were both involved in very secure and loving relationships and that we would only be friends but one day on the phone it all unravled i just started flirting but we were just talking as friends so this went on for like a month and every single time on the phone he would say you know i have a girlfriend and i would say yes i am aware of this and he would make it sound like i was making advances at him which we both agreeed none of us would do!! and then suddenly my 1yr relationship came to a screeching hault when Tony decided that me and him should just be friends over tha phone when i was on the other line with Marc and be4 i clicked over to find my relationship marc hadd been trying to tell me sumthin so i clicked over and told him the news he told me that he thought that he was falling in love with me and he told me and that he would try to break up w/ his gf which he haznt

but they have been getting in fights almost every day and hes tried evey thing like making a list with me and her names on it and listing the good and badd things about both of us on there and he said it came out tied so wat should i do!!!!!

Answer 1

he's a player, play him back. you sound way too young to be in a lasting relationship

Answer 2

definate playa...you need to forget that cause you givin him the better of two worlds. For him it's a win win situation, but look where your at, either ya gonna have him or nothin at all. Don't waste your time, go out find another and if he finally does split with his current girl and try's gettin you back, than the ball will be in your court and that's the place you wanna be.

Answer 3

here's a piece of advice that i hope you take to heart.what you are doing right now is trying to wedge yourself between a relationship beware Hun you may be setting yourself up for a HUGE fall what goes around comes around and if hes ready to dump his girl for you just over phone calls you better believe he will eventually end up doing the same to you its called karma Hun.there are unwritten rules in this life by which we should try to live by basically you don't take what isn't yours.you could always take a break from him until he decides then no one gets hurt and best of all it wont be your fault being the other women is not fun believe me its not a hat you will enjoy wearing.

Answer 4

If he has to make a list to chose between you, then he doesn't love you. I don't know how old you are, but if you a kid and he is a kid. It's just normal kid stuff. Your too young to know what you really want right now. If your older, I wouldn't give him a chance.

Answer 5

This is WAY too long winded. You need to condense this jabber and resubmit the question. You lost me after the 3rd sentence.

Answer 6

He is a player I went out with someone like that I was his first love and he was mine and we were together for 2years and I was his flavour of the weak.

Answer 7

Don't mess up Marc's happy home, go find someone else to date.

Answer 8

hes not a player. what if u were in his position?
i would be nervous too to break up with a g/f if i had a friend that i ended up loving. i mean how would u tell that to some1? just give him encouragement to do what he wants and he'll do it. just give him time

Answer 9

Girl, leave that alone and take some time for yourself.

Answer 10

Don't get involve with this looser cause he has baggage and if he cheat on her he may cheat on you as well.