I was in a "relationship" with this guy for almost year and a half. He was totally an asshole to me; treated me like a skank; didn't want to spend mass amounts of time with me; told me that I was expendable; talked to me like I was a bum on the street. He split (finally) after a while and stopped speaking to each other altogether. He called me maybe two months later and told me that he wanted to start over, make this work so that we could both grow. He had thought about marriage and everything. While I was testing out the waters with him, I met another guy who treats me like a queen. We started dating last week. I have yet to feel like I'm in another bad relationship! My question is: when do I tell the ex that I got with the new guy?
2006-08-01 06:34:37 · 11 answers · asked by Afrodite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now...... why wait around?
are you scared you may hurt his feelings?
he wasnt bothered about hurting yours now was he.
im glad youve found someone to treat you how you deserve.
now all you have to do is leave the garbage behind.
2006-08-01 06:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him about the new guy. Just tell him that you don't want to be with him any more. You shouldn't have given him another chance in the first place.
2006-08-01 13:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they are ex's for a reason. Do you really want to take a chance to see if your ex will continue to treat you like crap, or see if this other guy is what you really want.
2006-08-01 13:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by aintlovegrand78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you tried but the spark isn't there any more. And that you've met someone new you'd like to date. Honesty is the best policy.
2006-08-01 13:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Simone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right away - just tell him you're not interested. Don't go into details because then he will start bargaining with you.
Glad to hear things are better. Good luck!
2006-08-01 13:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, I'd say just ignore him completely and don't respond if he contacts you. He left. You moved on.
You deserve to be treated well. Remember that.
2006-08-01 13:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appears to me to be a no-brainer that wouldn't take a second to decide. What about abuse did you like? Did it make you feel loved?
2006-08-01 13:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him!!! You don't owe him any explanation; It's none of his damned business. He probably has heard of the new guy already and knows he's losing ground.
2006-08-01 13:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him anything about new relationship.
Just tell him you don't have any feelings for him.
2006-08-01 13:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by ciganka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him... just tell him it doesnt work...
2006-08-01 13:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by JQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋