Father's new school wife looks like a bad face from my nice mother. My mother is so simple and very fair. She thundered about my father. My mother thinking it is a work of black magic of that bad school girl's parents. My father do not stay in our house after new marry from 2 years even one night. But my father talks freely with us. I don't understand what I can do for my sorrow mother & my future????
2006-08-01 06:09:07 · 20 answers · asked by ashekmurshed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unfortunately, you can't do anything except what you are doing. Take care for your mother. She needs support from her children. Your father is of an age when he should be mature but obviously is not. Keep open the lines of communication and hope that he comes to his senses.
2006-08-01 06:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult situation. Try not to get stuck in the middle of an argument between your mother and your father. If your father has married this woman, you'll just have to accept it, even if it is difficult. Support your mother, but it might be a good idea not to take sides on this one. Your father has the right to make his own choices, and they should be respected. It's understandable that your mother is upset or angry, but it's something she'll have to come to terms with too.
Try to be a good son to BOTH of your parents as much as it's possible.
By the way, I love the archaically poetic way you speak English! Brilliant!
2006-08-01 06:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Entwined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks, but your father is a grown man allowed to marry who he wants. But he is responsible for how he handles his mid-life crisis. If he handled this as well, you need to let him go on and live his life. If he handled this poorly (he's obviously put your mother through hell) well, then karma will get him in the end. The young school girl, as you call her, will soon be tired of him and drop him. However, that is not up to you or your mother to determine.
As for your mother's sorrow- She needs to realize her own self worth and her strength. She's been going it alone for two years. She's stronger than she thinks. And you need to remind her of that every chance you get.
As for your future - You're 22. You're an adult. Your future is your responsibility, no one elses.
2006-08-01 06:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your pain. You & your mother must move on and try to look forward to new things in the future instead of being upset about bad things that happened already, like your dad marrying a young girl. Good luck to your family.
2006-08-01 06:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the path your father took. now you have to worry about your future. As a son you should study, get a decent job, start taking care of you mother. Don't be silly & just mope around. your daddy is "happy".
2006-08-01 06:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your father alone, and spend your free time learning English. Spend time with your mother.
2006-08-01 06:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you're trying to say. I can see that your father speaks freely to you, so tell himw hat you think about the school girl... I guess. I tried.
2006-08-01 06:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by karolinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thunderstand this,Galatians 1 6-10
2006-08-01 06:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by dale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your dad is happy so let him find his way that's what god put us down here for to live and learn and for you and your mom you two should live your lives don't let the new marriage bring you down look at it as a new chapter in your life with many possibility's
2006-08-01 06:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by mario c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray -and talk to each other together, and communicate with the rest of ur family how u feel.
2006-08-01 06:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by vanessara85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋