i hate oral sex. my bf ask me too many times to give him u know, but i dont like it and plus i dont even know where to start. i want to do it but i dont want all his stuff to be in my face?? u know
2006-08-01 06:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him. Most women don't like it, and if he respects you at all, he will respect you more, for not doing something because you feel forced to do it.
2006-08-04 10:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do it only if you really want to. I don't care what he says if you arn't enjoying it it could really ruin the experence for you now and in later relationships. Not to toot my own horn (I'm a girl not a guy so no pun intended) I have been told by girls and guys that I have had oral with that I could teach a class on it. First thing, do it during forplay, in the middle of sex or just out of the blue. Guys love that. Start by stroking him and sliding your hand up and down slowly with his penis between the thumb and forfinger with your palm face down and open, move up while doing a swirl around the penis starting at the base and working your why up to the head. Make sure your mouth isn't dry when you start, the wet feeling helps guys to get hard faster, use your lips to kiss and and your tongue lightly grazing the penis all over, pay close attention to the head. move up and down the member with your mouth slowly at first and when you feel him get really hard go a little faster, listen to him and his breathing you can usually tell by this when he is going to *** unless he's a talker then he'll tell you when he is ready. If you don't want it in your mouth pull back and finsih the job with your hands. Remember to play with his balls all the while with your free hand some guys don't like their balls messed with they will usually say so if he doesn't than again pay attention to his breathing if it seems that you lost him stop touching them and start sucking his penis again till he is all reved up again. If you really wanna drive him nuts don't let him ***. when he says hes ready slightly sqeeze his member just below the head and then move your hand up and down real slow. If your still not sure to tell if he is going to *** and you really don't want it all over you wisper something like, I wanna see you jack off or I want you to fisnish while I watch. But don't don't go cold on him once he starts, play with yourself or kiss him while he finishes. give him some kind of visual stimulation it helps. Good luck honey, oh and remember what I said if you arn't ready don't do it. He always has two hands that can do the job just fine. If he won't listen than you should really think about what you want out of the relationship and if it's worth risking your self worth to make him happy.
2006-08-01 13:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Foxfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do imagine you are saying that you are afraid of getting his stuff in your mouth because you dont know what it taste like and you dont want to gag or anything like that. well first of all if he really cares about you he wouldnt put so much pressure on you to do things that you dont want to do. you should tell him that you arent interested in doing that and that there are other things you can do. and if he cant respect that then he dosnt sound right for you anyway. im a guy and i hate guyes who put sexual pressure on there girlfriends. especually if they arent interested in the same stuff. i hope my anwser could help you a little.
2006-08-01 13:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by thekidwiththeredhair_yay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is good if you love your BF
2006-08-02 03:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. Maybe you guys can talk about it and make something else work. Always tell your partner how you feel about things liek that cause thats a BIG deal. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he was happy i told him how i felt and if he doesnt care how you feel then maybe he's using you so tell him.
2006-08-01 13:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could have a different kind of oral sex, without getting it in your mouth
2006-08-01 13:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Bobesink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i will tell you this now..if you do not do it then he will find someone else that does it...it is not as bad as you might think...i myself..suck, lick, and swallow..but that is my man...and i would do anything toplease him..plus i like it...
2006-08-01 13:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to get it in your mouth, just move it away before it comes out.
Read up on it before you do it, and then if you don't like it, tell him what you feel.
2006-08-01 13:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Samster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do normal sex, he would prefer that any way
2006-08-01 13:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel. it's that easy.
2006-08-01 13:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mafia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋