Do you know of anything to "fill time" during my wedding ceremony? The unity candle alone is not enough. I would like the ceremony to last about 35-45min... any suggestions??
2006-08-01 06:04:00 · 27 answers · asked by Lisa S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You could have someone you know (with a good voice) sing an appropriate song. Depending on how formal it is, suprise the parents with some sort of tribute to them for helping you prepare in this moment in your life. There can be a short Bible or other type of reading that is appropriate. Short is not a bad thing. People in the pews like things short and sweet. :)
2006-08-01 06:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by E Y 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want the ceremony to last that long? Put in the stuff that's meaningful to you and your fiancee, whether it be a reading, a special song, or whatever. Remember, you'll be STANDING this entire time, as will your wedding party....and while 30 minutes may seem to be short, while you're standing up there, it will feel like a small eternity. Don't add "filler" to your wedding ceremony, and if it's 15 minutes, then so be it, it was meaningful to you, and probably your guests as well. Good luck!!!
2006-08-01 13:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
music. You could have special songs sung (for example have somebody sing the song that always reminds you of a special time with your husband-to-be).
and then there are readings. If you have a favorite poem or you could find a poem that you really like that is relevant to marriage (like the poem I Carry Your Heart With Me, by E.E. Cummings), you could ask a family member or a friend to do a reading for you. (if you can't find a poem, a biblical reading would be good too, try 1Corinthians 13:4-8).
You can elaborate on the Unity Candle, change it, etc...
your best bet is to have more music and include several readings. Using family and friends to do special readings is also a great way to have your loved ones feel more included in the ceremony (esp. the people you couldn't have for bridesmaids and groomsmen)
good luck & congratulations!!
2006-08-01 13:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by mr and mrs gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Opening Music. 2) Wedding March. 3) Opening Blessing. 4) Readings from Scripture. 5) REverend's words about marriage and love. 6) Unity Candle. 7) Vows. 8) more music. 9) rest of church service. 10) Big Kiss. 11) Closing music. That should equal 45-50 minutes. Enjoy!
2006-08-01 13:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your friends and family sing to you. Pick three, four, or five of them to perform songs that pertain to marriage, love, or faith. Also, have the organist or pianist play some instrumentals.
One of my fantasies is to have my family and friends sing to me wedding songs from Broadway musicals. Some of them might be appropriate for a wedding ceremony, such as "One Hand, One Heart" from West Side Story.
You might also have friends and family members read poetry or Scriptures having to do with weddings, marriage, love, or faith. An interpretive dance might be appropriate for some settings. So might a two-person scene from a play.
BTW, the wedding party doesn't HAVE to stand all that time! Save some pews for the bridesmaids and groomsmen, and have them bring out two chairs for yourself and your intended. If the altar has a choir loft, your wedding party can sit there for a while, unless you've included a choir in your wedding.
2006-08-01 14:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Include the basics.. aside from the unity candle...The matrimonial veil, the candle, the matrimonial cord, the arrhae.. then if you have primary sponsors, they would stand around you and the groom while the vow is being read..then after the ceremony, pictorials..that would last 45 minutes.. Best Wishes!
2006-08-01 13:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by belladona_ph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your guests a favor and just let the ceremony be shorter. Most people hate sitting in long ceremonies. Mine was 10 minutes long, short and sweet and to the point. If you're trying to fill empty time with something, I say don't, just let the ceremony be shorter. Good luck!
2006-08-01 13:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick some songs and have someone sing, my sis did this and it was great.
She also did the unity candle and really it will add up to around about 1 hr. I know hers did.
I am assuming your reception will be right after so this will help family be longer acquainted.
2006-08-01 13:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by steelerfan25275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about having someone sing that special song that maybe is a favorite of yours and your fiance. Also playing the song daddy's girl as your dad is walking you down the aisle. My daughter also had communion for just her and her fiance during the ceremony.
2006-08-01 13:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by brenna452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soloists can always be inserted. Other than the repeating of vows, the Lord's Prayer, and oh yeah, you can always play songs that you dedicated to each other. Like a song from the bride to the groom and vice versa. May God Bless
2006-08-01 13:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋