they were married b4 me and him but were together for 6 months that it and dated off and on for 3 years we got 2gether in 04 (she had money the army) he left her in 06 and came back to me well they have a baby and he has the baby i take care of her (dont bother me about that) but i think that when she comes home on r&r they are going to hookup then ill be out
btw he told me that he never told her the stuff he tells me or acts that way and that is a lie i saw a letter and ...........am i stupid i really love him and like we never stop talkin when he was with her and she ran off with her sgt i sent him a bus ticket and money but he naver came and he said that she was knocked up ahhhh i need help should i feel like he is going to leave me or should i just chill out for a min
2006-08-01 05:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by babygirl04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are very naive. You placed yourself in a situation that NO-ONE should be in.Always wait until the relationship is over before entering into one. He is using you,,, and you are allowing it. All married guys pray for a woman as gullible as you. Leave him, and find someone who is single and will worship you!!!!
2006-08-01 06:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got really good answers already, but i cant help but put in my 2 cents worth anyway. Most of the answers u have are right on, {have fun picking best answer on this 1}. Anyway, i also feel that u are being used to feel his free time and needs in her absence,........stop now. It may hurt because u luv him but it will hurt more the longer it goes on. I also dont want 2 get started on the kid issue as someone else already said, {talk about having your cake & eating it 2,..Damn!!} Wake up from the fairy tale baby, this guy dont luv u. Sorry, good luck.
P.S. dont consider me 4 best answer, i'm only saying what some of the others {the smart ones}have already told you. Good luck
2006-08-01 13:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell are you talking about and thinking ????? He is not yours. He is married. He is using you and lying to you. Your just there to fill up his time when he has nothing else to do. And dont even get me started on you taking care of the kid. I dont even have words for that. Bottom line, your being used and yes this makes you really stupid sorry to say.
2006-08-01 12:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating a married man. Find yourself a single man and go from there
2006-08-01 12:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the one leaving him. Go find yourself your OWN man without so much baggage.
2006-08-01 12:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋