i have been single for about 3 yrs and it seems all the guy's want is sex and i know it is because the of the way the women look now day's so was up with that
2006-08-01 05:53:03 · 22 answers · asked by angela_37_missouri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all the guys,Angela....you're just dialing the wrong number !!
2006-08-01 06:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sheefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is because the first thing that a man sees is the outside appearance.Some don't take the time to see the inside or want to find out.For example when a guy sees me the first thing they look at is my booty.I have a man but if i were single some wouldn't take the time out to see that i actually have a brain.I think all beauty is on the inside.I totally agree with you that some of these men all they want is sex.You just have to keep looking,theres a man out there for you.When you find him you will know it and sex wont be the only thing he wants out of the relationship.The sex that he may want all the time will be with you.I'm one of those women that's in a relationship for 9 years and want sex all the time but that's just with him.Usually when you are not looking for a man is when he will appear.You will find him and probably will be saying that he wants sex all the time but that wont be the only thing.
2006-08-01 12:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys worry about this.. I am one of them.. I said so long to alot of empty headed, cold hearted, selfish, self indulgent, self centered, egotistical, money grubbing, materialistic beauties... My wife is quiet, gentel, and sweet. She dated me when I didn't have my license and only made a few bucks an hour working with handicaped children.. She stayed with me through my best friends death, and bouts of alcoholisim and drug addiction... Yet she is also beautiful on the outside.. It is not as if she were some desprate hag.. She made me want to be a better person, and so I did.. I see so many of my friends having trouble looking at the inside.. I hope someday everyone can find a girl like my Colleen..
2006-08-01 13:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure all guys aren't like that... but there are def. some that are. I've heard it before, comments like "Well, I think she should wear a bikini if she's hot, but if she's fat and ugly, she should just be locked away somewhere so she doesn't hurt my eyes." Men and women can both be mean, heartless, and obsessed with appearances. More people need to learn to appreciate the inside and stop obsessing over the outside.
2006-08-01 12:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by xenomorph_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been proven that the most important thing to keeping a relationship goin is mutual attraction. Girls are as superficial as guys are, we just get the stereotype, because we tend to be more forward about it.
So saying all a guy wants is sex, is probably true initially in all cases. If he does, it means he's attracted to you and you should be complemented. The way you keep a guy, is by showing him that there is more there than your body. In my experience, however, most cuter girls are more worried about how they look than how they act. You want a guy to recognize you and not your face and body, don't be superficial.
2006-08-01 12:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by AresIV 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are very visual and looks always give someone a first impression before you even open your mouth. in today's society first impressions looks wise are everything. I know it may seem wrong, but that's how guys are. most of them do care about what's on the inside, but they always see the outside first. also, sex is everywhere and it's what sells.. so guys are appealed to women dresses in skimpy clothes ready to just have sex with anyone.
2006-08-01 12:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by abercrombie_princess543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do worry about the inside u just have to wait until the right one comes along
2006-08-01 12:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shakerra J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you're not attracted to the outside, it's hard to want to get to know the inside. Sad but true.
Fortunately, I have a wife that is beautiful inside and out!
2006-08-01 12:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in a mans nature to want to have sex. However the level of severity will vary from guy to guy. Some just think about it all the time. Stay away from them! Find a nice respectful guy and build from there.
2006-08-01 12:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Gregg H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is the first thing you notice about anyone. It could be your eyes or your body men are attracted to. The women these days, put it out there like eye-candy and the men just "gobble" it up. It kinda makes it a little harder for women like us who still have that sex appeal, but not showing it off like that.
2006-08-01 13:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys don't like showing their true self most of the time and so they let their cave man take over. If they are around their friends they tend to act stupid because if they try to say whats on their mind they will be called a pussy and all those names. Some men arent that bad but to find those men is kind of hard.
2006-08-01 12:59:33 · answer #11 · answered by audri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋