So here's the deal - hooked up with this guy I've known for a while, and we had a really great time (this wasn't our first time hooking up, ad he's wanted to for years). SO it was really fantastic, and while we were messing around, he said "I love you", but I didn't pay it any mind. We all get caught up. So I see him out the next day, and he played me really cold. We made small talk, and he kept hanging out in my general vicinity with his back to me, but like right in front of me. I touched him once while he was talkign to someone else, and he actually walked away. But then stayed within eyesight, and kept looking over. Every time he'd walk past me, he'd look at me. And then I made a new friend - just a friend but real touchy feely, and he was watchign us the whole time, and actually stared when this friend and I kissed on the lips. I'd really like to mess aroudn with this guy more, but i'm not sure what to make of this hot/cold stuff. Any help?
2006-08-01 05:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by China J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I should prolly clarify something. A. I'm definitely NOT a ho - i've been celibate for quite a while, and this guy knows this.
B. The second guy was gay. (altho pretty straight-acting).
C. Our social scene is pretty fluid and sensual - folks do a lot of flirting and touching etc.
I think perhaps because this guy was straight-acting might have thrown him off.
Either way - i don't see why he has any say in who I let be close to me, it's not like he told me one way or the other, that i'm not allowed to socialize with whom I want. And I wouldn't have accepted that anyway.
2006-08-01 06:15:15 · update #1
You are definitely in tune with your feelings and how you want to be treated as a lady and a sexual acquaintance, its up to him to accept that or move on!
Just for the heck of it, what age group are you in?
2006-08-02 04:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you like to mess around with a few people at one time. Stick to one person at a time. He maybe getting vibes from you that are not good. WORK ON ONE PERSON AT A TIME. It will turn out much better. You sound really young. Dont force nothing. Just go with the flow.
2006-08-01 05:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he has feelings for you- but has decided not to pursue it because he knows that you don't care about him or about sex in the same way. He's trying to protect himself- and it would be good of you to either decide you can look at him as an emotional partner as well as a sexual one, or leave him alone.
2006-08-01 05:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by landed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In NZ, it skill get inebriated as in: virtually legless, or 'destroy the c**t's head in' as in: beat the pulp out of a guy they're pee'd off with. In sexually oriented countries, it skill 'have sex'.
2016-11-27 19:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by branting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a ho.
2006-08-01 05:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ill have to agree that you do sound like a ho but i think your his toy and he's using you but he doesn't wanna share his new toy
2006-08-01 05:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mae W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the second guy
2006-08-01 05:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋