my mother is ill and she can't cook. me and my father prepare food for everybody.
my father drinks a lot which result into a quarrel everyday
i am just fed up of my life
my exams are next to next week
after going through all days fight i am so depressed and hopless that i don't want to study
even when i open the book i am so angary with everyone
pls help me
2006-08-01 05:35:27 · 12 answers · asked by ANGEL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sometimes all it takes is talking. have you ever told your dad to stop drinking? maybe you should do that.
2006-08-01 05:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by bonnie b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your father drinks to suppress the emotions he is feeling - to put in bluntly, to escape. Is he the type of dad you can be open to and talk about this? Perhaps you should tell him how you feel and that you need him and his drinking is putting extra pressure in the house.
No matter how low you feel honey, you HAVE to study. Grades are so important, especially if you want to get away from what's happening there now by finding a good paying job (from which you can take care of your parents) and moving into your own place.
When you say you and your father prepare food for everybody (at least he's in a position to help with that), how many people? Why can't they lend a hand? Try look for a Microwave cooking book - you get some really nice recipes in there and they're quick and easy to make.
Don't let yourself get so down, when you feel you're getting down or you feel angry, focus on something else - perhaps put some of your favourite music on and dance/sing to it until you feel better and then go study.
Can you perhaps go study at a friend's or a library?
My heart goes out to you x
2006-08-01 05:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jesi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of respect to you! You seem to be a strong and dedicated person and will make it far. These times you are going through are though and I have been through similar. All they do is make you tougher and stronger. You learn to cope with things in life and make other situations a walk in the park.
What ever you may do stay focused on your studies, and help where you can with your family. You should talk to someone and have them help you with your tasks and just so you have a shoulder to cry on. Talking about something helps a lot. You should have a small get a way on the weekend or something to completely get your mind off everything. Got to the beach, pool, movies,... anything you like to do to get a way.
I am sure you will make it no matter what is through at you.
Be happy and suck up the hard times
Greg
2006-08-01 05:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Gregory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can stay with a friend or something for a while. You probably just need a break. I know how you feel, it isn't easy living with someone with a drinking problem, it really makes life a living hell. E-mail me if you need to chat, I can't help but feel for you, I just got myself out of the same situation.
2006-08-01 05:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 11:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you get away for a day or two? it helps to remove yourself from the chaos. Parents arent always understanding (even though everyone will say talk to your dad about his drinking), so we have to take care of ourselves and let others take care of themselves. even if you go to the library to study, you have to do whats good for YOU so you dont repeat the same mistakes of your parents
2006-08-01 06:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz listen to me, u shud be happy, this is part of life, u shud take this as a motivation for u to study, think about yr future what u want to end up like, do u want to go tru the same thing like yr mother or yr father, if u think more about yr emo sure u will depressed and hopeless.. coz u think u are!!
juz take it as all of this is fact of life, u hv to go tru, and juz aim for what u want infront!...
2006-08-01 06:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can be hard sometimes, however you have to hang in there. To make a better life for yourself, you have to Study. Please talk to someone about what you are feeling, it can only help you get past this.
2006-08-01 10:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break for sometime n concentrate on ur studies that'll help u in future. try to b practical......i know its a difficult situation for u but try to come out of it.
2006-08-01 20:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by pam c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it in God's hands
2006-08-01 06:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋