if your childs aunt was taking your child-"now mind you, you know her she is a good person and u trust her". If she told you that she doesnt need to tell you where she going with your kid "when she asks to have her for the day or so"and if you ask she gets mad and hungs up because if she was trusted then why does she need to tell where they are going and that she is grown and doesnt have to tell u anything. and when you call to check up on your child if it is an overnight if she doesnt feel like it wont answer
how would you feel about that?????
that was orginal message
i am adding too this
i told her i didnt think this is right and i have every right to know where my kid is at all times she said she doesnt feel this a big deal to her and hu on me
i would like to add she is my best friend and my boyfriend of 6 yrs sister - i love her to death. but when it comes to my kid i have the right to know where they are at all times-she dont agree and wont talk about it help!!!
2006-08-01 05:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Soldier 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You have EVERY RIGHT TO KNOW WHERE YOUR CHILD IS AT ALL TIMES.
It's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of peace of mind. Your child comes first, not friendships or boyfriends or aunts. If she is acting weird about it, there could be something more there.
Personally, I would not let my child go anywhere with her. If she can't go by your rules, then she does not get to take the kid. Period. If people get mad, then so be it. You are the mom here, and an adult. Sometimes adults have to make tough decisions.
2006-08-01 05:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answered your last question, I'm not a parent but babysit my 5yr old niece and keep my auntie and uncle informed of where we go and what we do. I also get her to ring home before bedtime.
Read my last answer, tell your friend this is not a trust issue but your peace of mind as a friend she should understand this.
Bottom line is It's your kid and you don't want to be fretting at home hoping she's OK it's there responsibility as temporary guardians.
I would not think of taking my niece away from my auntie/uncle without giving them piece of mind.
This isn't about petty friendship issues this is the safe keeping of a women's child and as the mother your word is final.
2006-08-01 13:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your kid. Don't let her take your child w/out letting you know where they are.
Ex: They may have went sightseeing at the Twin Towers 9/11/01.
Think about that.
2006-08-01 12:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by amee2you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR child. YOUR rules.
You are the parent. You have the right to know where you child is at all times. Actually.....you have the RESPONSIBILITY to know where your child is at all times.
I am assuming that this Aunt is NOT your sister. If it's a relative of your hubby's, then I'd have him talk to her. If it's your brother's wife, then I'd talk to your brother if I were you.
2006-08-01 12:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, Very simple. NEVER let this person watch your kids
Never let anyone watch your children that don't respect your wishes or do "everything" you instruct. Its your child you are responsible for them. Tell her to jump off a cliff
2006-08-02 05:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by outdoor man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't my kid hand round her anymore if i were you. she so doesn't have any respect for you as a parent and til she can do what you want doesn't need to have any contact with your kid. but that's just me, i've been told i'm strict when it comes to kids. but hey, it works
2006-08-01 12:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋