this guy has been eyeing me for months,never asked me out though.he had been away for some months although he's back now.its almost a year and he's still showing interest but yet is afraid to confess or too shy.does that mean his interest is bona fide..or is it fake.
2006-08-01 05:30:03 · 32 answers · asked by jane24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not talk to him and get to know him. if you are curious, what better way to find out. he may be a little shy and need some help to move forward.
2006-08-01 05:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO start of there is no such thing as love. Even if there was, it can't be love, or to get to a feelings that we think it's love. For that you need more than just know a person form a distance and how he/she looks/.
he just has a crush on you but is very shy and stupid to get to know you better. You have the pants on this one sister, if you are a little interested on him you loose nothing, ask him to hang out one day so you both can get to know each other.
maybe he will like you even more or realise it was jus tlooks and an idea he had about you that was wrong.
2006-08-01 05:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it is, it's a little creepy. It doesn't seem likely that he's going to approach you any time soon, and you need to flush out his motives.
Next time you see him eyeing you, approach him immediately. Ask him if he noticed something on your clothing or your face and if that's why he was staring, or come out and say that you've noticed him for some time now and want to know if you can help him in some way.
If he is genuinely interested, hopefully this would make it easier for him to say, "yeah you can help me get a cup of coffee if you want!" or some other line to ask you out.
I'd be wary if he acts afraid of being discovered or uncomfortable being approached directly...
2006-08-01 05:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by UnrealJuju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought of asking him out on a date if you like him too? If he says no than you know it's just some kind of infatuation with you he's having.. if he says yes, then you know he likes you ( I wouldn't say love just yet). I think it's too early in the gamt to tell if he looks at you because he wants to get to know you more or just because he likes looking at you. Al I know is that guys can be extremely shy when it comes to asking girls out or letting them know how they feel because they are soo intimidated by rejection. Ego busting is devastation to them.. So, why don't you give it a shot.. We all know know that us girls can withstand a no or two in our lifetime and not cry over it for too long!
2006-08-01 05:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just too shy. Maybe you could approach him, just in a friendly manner, nothing more- and try to show him that there is no need to be shy; of course if you are interested in him as well.
Cuz guys, sometimes need a little push, and some kind of encouragement.
Good luck! ;)
2006-08-01 05:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably interested but tucken
i write from experience im 17 and i go to a jr college i always look
at the girls i am interested in but i dont get at theme because
i already have a baby moma and a beautifull daughter
and they are the only ones i really want to be with so i just loo and stare at the other girls and they look back to with interest
but i just dont approach theme
2006-08-01 05:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of what ifs. I would think at this point his interest might not be normal. again the what ifs If he were a young teen I wouldn't be as afraid, but if he's over 17 . run for the hills
2006-08-01 05:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is go up to him and feel him out...He may be just shy or think that you are not interested and if you are I would make the first move...
2006-08-01 05:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be interested, but since y'all don't even know one another there's no "love" to it...some kind of attraction is likely there...if you are curious to find out how deep this interest goes, then talk to him...the days of women sitting back and having to wait for men to make the first move are over...go for it...
2006-08-01 05:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it can't be LOVE - love takes shared interests and getting to know each other so it is infatuation, if anything. Maybe he just thinks you are attractive. You might want to say hello and see what happens. Good luck.
2006-08-01 05:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋