My boyfriend and i have been together over a year and i love him. my parents absolutely hate him and dont give us PERMISSION to see each other my dad even blocked his number!!! we are in love and i know he loves me but he playfully BITES me! and leaves bruises! then i have to tell my mom i hit my arm on the door or some stupid excuse. he really doesnt mean to leave bruises or hurt me. and he made me delete my MYSPACE account!! that sucked!and he hates when i talk to any other guy, i cant even say hey. but hes everything to me. ive taken up for him so much me and my rents relationship is screwed. he's all that i've got to stay SANE!
2006-08-01 05:24:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not a good guy...he's controlling and doing something to you (biting) that can get you in trouble and he knows it...he's proving to you that he can do as he likes and you wont' stop him...
Get away now...the controlling will get worse, and abuse may well follow...bad news sugar...someone who cares about you and trusts you isn't going to insist you delete accounts or ignore freinds...nor get you in trouble with your parents and leave marks on your body...
He doesn't love you...he loves having control of you...
2006-08-01 05:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are more important than boyfriends. He sounds like a control freak - you don't want to live like this. Your parents tell you what to do because they love you and want what's best. He sound selfish, insecure, and aggressive. It is never appropriate to leave bruises. If you have to lie about how you got hurt, it is an abusive relationship albeit seemingly mild.
My boyfriend has biten me pretty hard and never left a mark - how badly is this boy hurting you?
Make up with your parents. They deserve more of your respect than this loser.
2006-08-01 05:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about abuse do you not understand? People who love other people do not leave bruises, do not make others delete myspace stuff, do not get jealous when they talk to other guys. Your boyfriend is not keeping you sane. If by some odd chance he is, you are leaning on the wind. Sanity comes from within where self confidence is to be found. If you need help getting free of your addiction to his abuse, please get it.
2006-08-01 05:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to prioritize your relationships. Your parents, or some guy who bites you and is insecure? I understand you love him but you have to look out for yourself. If a guy is causing you to change your relationship with others, then thats not right. Here's something: ask him if you're his everything, ask him to delete his myspace and stop talking to other girls. If he refuses, he's not the one.
-Dr.p
2006-08-01 05:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds really controlling. the first sign is his extreme jealousy of you talking to other guys, and that he made you delete your myspace. it doesnt sound like a healthy relationship. he may not "mean" to be controlling or hurt you, but the fact is he does. you need to break up with him before it gets worse. he is really insecure and so he needs to control you to make himself feel better. this is not a healthy relationship for you at all.
2006-08-01 05:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your crazy your putting to much into one person I love my girlfriend to death I really do She is the only girl i want to be with but I know i can live a perfectly sane life without her.And you need to tell him not to be so damn controlling because love and relationships are about trust without trust we are just animales.
2006-08-01 05:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sas-n-Frass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's marking what is his, like a dog peas on his territory.
This is juvenile. Your parents are correct. This guy neither respects or appreciates you.
Love is a strong word, even if you do. Get out before this relationship does you harm.
2006-08-01 05:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets really jealous when you talk to other guys. Ask your parents why they don't like him, maybe they don't like him because he bites...they secretly know that. But don't tell them the truth before they spill it out. If you guys hang, don't leave evidence!
2006-08-01 05:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see that you love this boy but dont cut your life short for him;
i used to be that way- let me show you a trick or two to keep him on his toes.
put your foot down 1st. you grew up with boys n girls so you should be able to say hi.
trust me he says hi to all the girls.
so you say hi to the guys nothing serious but just how ya doing and keep it moving. ask your boyfriend if he was born with you and if he's going to die with you.NO. you are your own person.
your not cheating b.c you say hi. get real.
biting ****. is nothing bite him back. make yourself equal honey.
2006-08-01 05:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, run now......this is an abusive, controlling relationship and you deserve better than this. If he bit you once and it bruised you, that is one thing, but he does it over and over again. Sit down with your Mother, Aunt any adult that you are close to and discuss this with them, ask for their help to get away from this person, before he does permanent damage to you.
2006-08-01 05:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋