I have been with this guy i met online on and off for about a year, i fell in love with him the day i met him, and i knew he was the one for me, i care about him and love him a lot and i know he feels the same way about me, we have been through a lot and i wanna be with him. Im only 17,but i knowwhat love is, and i love him, i have a child and he loves her so much and she loves him....but we have never met and it seems to me that the reason we keep breakin up and getting back together is because we live so far apart i kno long distance relationships usuall never work but i love him so much and i was willing to give it a try, but lately i have been feeling like he would rather be with someone else, i have also found myselftryin to change my appearence to please him.i am pretty with or with out how i changed myself but im tryin to make him happy, and still want to be with me, he doesnt ask me to change but i still do...do i break up with him?cause im tired of not being able to be wit him
2006-08-01 05:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by fashiondivine01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have talked to him over the phone before, ihave talked to his family and friends, and i trust him so much...and even though im 17 i do kno what love is,and im in love with him
2006-08-01 05:36:35 · update #1
You need to meet him face to face and see if it's real.
2006-08-01 05:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one could really tell u what to do because we dont really know whats happening between you 2, but if I was you, judging from what your saying, I would break it off. Long distance relationships hardly work out, and online relationships...NEVER work out. I'm sure you heard this before, but people online dont really act the same in real life. Since you never met the guy, you never know what he could be hiding from you. It's all up to you, I mean I'm the same age as you, and I'd hate to be going through that. Since your so far away from him you dont know what hes doing when hes OFF the computer. Good luck sweety.
2006-08-01 12:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, an internet romance is dangerous. A person can be anything they want to be behind a keyboard.
You are in love with love at the moment.
You shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone! Trust me on this one. I know from first hand experience. You will spend your life in misery.
Find someone near home that is worthy of your affection.
2006-08-01 12:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like you love him so much, I know it hurts to not be with the one you love. But you have to remember, he loves you as well, even if he's not there. If you're both willing to be dedicated to the other, then keep with him. But if you feel it's getting to you, then you need to tell him the truth. That you still love him, you always will, but you can't stand not being with him, so you two need to take a break until you're living in the same zipcode.
2006-08-01 12:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by callmegoddess618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have never met him, you dont know for sure that he is who he says he is. it would be so easy for him to lie to you, to be sleeping with other people, and you would NEVER KNOW. there is nothing wrong with long distance relationships as long as you knew the person before they moved away. creating a "relationship" with someone long distance over the internet is just setting yourself up to get hurt. i understand what its like, i did it once, and when he came to visit his friends who lived near me, i went to meet him. i was more in love with the IDEA of him, than i was with him. just be careful sweetie.
2006-08-01 12:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly i think that if you are talking to a guy that you have never met on the internet telling him everthing about you.. that is very dangerous you really need to think about that. ok ask yourself this.. you have never seen the guy.. person to person wise.. and you have never kissed.. hugged this person then how are you love? are you sure that it isnt just puppy love and you just like the guy and just dont know what direction to turn in? dont let any guys make you change your apperance.. im sure you are very pretty the way you are.. so just think about it.. do you think this is safe for your child.. how do you know that this guy really isnt like 56 or something.. and not who or what you think he his? so please think about it.. hope everything goes good.. *regina*
2006-08-01 12:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by ginababe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your tired you probably should. You never know if he is cheating on you since you both far from each other.
But listen to what your heart wants to do.
If you feel like you should leave him think about it then if you want to then go for it.
2006-08-01 12:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by margera_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not trying to be mean but your 17 you dont know what love is take your time ok dont rush things in life
2006-08-01 12:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by jamescoffman1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not make yourself happy? If he loves you, then he would want you happy with yourself first!
2006-08-01 12:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Cheri E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't hurry up. First you speak with face to face, the you can decide what to do.
2006-08-01 12:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋