Question for those who has let a cheater back in their life.....?

Question

How could you let someone that has cheated on you back in your life? If that person claims to love you, then why didn't they love you enough to realize they were wrong before they cheated? What are some of the things that cheaters say for you to take them back? And is your relationship the same since you feel you always have to watch that person?

Answer 1

I cheated wanted to see if the grass was green on the other side~ It was not. I did not want to be with this person whom I had cheated. I had to see if I was really going to make this crap work in the other relationship, WE as humans be having doubts. Sometime we give in to the doubt and we are hopeful that if we get caught or when we fess up the partner is understandable but we do not expect them to but other are. So, I just told the truth and said what I just typed and I said sorry for hurting you. I however never say, I am sorry cause I am not sorry cheating cause that was something I agreed to do. No need of wasting a sorry if you meant to do it. Man up for real. If you get taken back its a blessing. Oh, I have not cheated or anything else and the relationship is AWESOME~

Answer 2

Once it's done, it's done.
You can never go back.
You are right they will say they love you, and yes they shouldn't have cheated if they love you.
Real love is when someone values you enough to never intentionally do anything that would hurt you.
Real love is not doing something intentionally that would hurt you because you might not find out.
Love is not about being able to tolerate the other person's character flaws. It's about becoming a better person so that you deserve to be a part of their lives.
Don't take a cheater back. It's the lowest form of disrespect that you can suffer through, and it almost never works.
Good luck

Answer 3

I did it. It didn't work out. She did it again.