My problem is this.....school is about to start for me, and I am accident prone.(ex. I get in the worst of problems because of my actions) and I afraid that someone may ask me out although I love someone else, who lives in another country.....what am I to do if that were to happen?
2006-08-01 04:48:08 · 31 answers · asked by voice_of_reason 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love that person, then don't cheat on her\him. If your relationship with her\him isn't serious, then you can go out with this other person. Think very well before you act but do NOT forget to listen to your heart.
2006-08-01 04:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 4⤋
Weigh the chances of getting together with someone in a different country against the possibilities that are readily available to you now. Long distance relationships NEVER work (been there done that twice). How do you know the other person will be faithful? They can say they are but if you have never met face to face it makes it easier for them to lie. No need to shut out your options at this point. If you ever DO get together with the person in the other country- you may discover 1) that they turn out to be someone you didn't expect personality wise or some other way and 2) you can decide when that moment arrives whether you want to build a future with them or not. Leave your options open and don't hold out too much hope. You may find someone that will make you forget about the long distance person.
2006-08-01 04:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If whoever asks you out interests you, go ahead and accept the date. You never know ... you might become interested in him.
You love a man who lives in another country? Long distance relationships are difficult at best. Has he indicated to you that he's interested in making your relationship permanent? Is he "being faithful" to you while in the other country? Why should you be faithful to him???
You need to have a life where you are, honey ... not half a life because your "love" lives in another nation.
I don't think accident-prone has anything to do with your situation.
2006-08-01 04:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance releationships don't usually work. You are too young to tie yourself down to someone to begin with --- much less the fact that he's in another country. Are you attempting to waste your life on purpose when you could be having a good time? I don't know what accident prone and the boyfriend have to do with each other. But as far as "accident prone" --- that is usually caused by moving too quickly --- try to slow down. You have to make a conscious effort of it (I know because I'm this way too).
2006-08-01 04:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how someone asking you out has to do with being accident prone. If you are thinking you should try it and hope you don't get caught, NO, NO, NO. You love someone else. If there is a chance for a relationship with this someone, do not mess it up by having a relationship with someone local. Just say no
2006-08-01 04:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what does accident prone have to do with anything? And, if you love the person in the other country and know that that will go somewhere, then say no. If not, say yes.
2006-08-01 04:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the person you think you love lives in another country. You don't need to say anything else. That give you the right to date whomever you want until they get back into the country or you go to their country. What they don't know won't hurt them. Besides how the hell will they find out?
2006-08-01 04:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by pablo h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if you love someone else, then say no. What is so hard about that? I am thinking that you may not really love the other person since you have to ask this question. Maybe you should think about how you really feel and hit us back when you figure your feelings out. Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Julie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the chances of you ever getting together with the person in another country? Pretty slim I"m betting...especially if you are still in school (I assume you are young).
Don't put your life on hold for something that's quite unlikely to materialize...live it, love it...go out and get to know people...date, learn about relationships and socializing...just because you go out with someone doesn't obligate you to date only them unless you just want to...
Enjoy life!
2006-08-01 04:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two dont plan on living together and just have a long distance relationship then i dont see any harm on dating other people. unless you are really dont love this person that lives in another country. by the sounds of this question you have asked it sounds like you already have doubts in your mind about the other person that lives far away. if you truely love this person dont see other people. if you think you love this person sit back and think twice before you act.
2006-08-01 04:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by carrie2713 l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't "accident-prone", this is straight up infidelity. Let's call a spade a spade. If you can't be faithful, then clearly this is no accident.
Having said that, have a great time and go NUTS!
2006-08-01 04:51:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋