okay my bf and i have been together for a while, but hes changed alot, for example a while back he asked to hang out with his ex, then little did i know that she was single agin and had been texting my bf and telling him how much she missed him, then since he'd get out late hed be to tired to hang but then he would call when he'd get home and would aks me if he can go hang out with da boys and wouldnt call then i'd worry then we'd argue the next day cuz i wanted to know why he didnt call to klet me know he was okay. sometimes i feel as tho he takes me for granted and does not appreciate da little things i do for him, ive talked to him about how i feel towards the situations but he always says well that is your opinion now is it. hes been really rude lately i can t figure out what is wrong with him, he wont open up to me. i broke up with himn on sunday havent talke to him since im scared he wont came back, what should i do??!!
2006-08-01 04:42:56 · 19 answers · asked by cleopatraluv06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you broke up wit him y r u scared that he want come back.......hes probably back wit his ex...MOVE ON
2006-08-01 04:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica_H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really in love with you, he would understand how u are feeling.... Nobody hurts someone he cares about. Instead of just throwing it at ur face he should have talked to you, made u understand that there is nothing going on between him and his ex. If doesnt think ur feelings are worth 10 mins of his time or he is hurting you by his behaviour... then y do u want him back - to hurt more?
Girl, u broke up with him.... U have already done what was to be done.... When he realises what he has lost, he will come back and if he is too dumb to understand, then u r better off without him. Even if u beg him to stay and he does stay.... think of all the hurt, the pain u would cause urself, coz he will not change... its not him who need u, and wanted to stay....
So young lady, peace.... let life show u what it holds for you............
2006-08-01 05:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, love them forever, it's meant to be." if they don't come back, let them go. Life will be filled with bumps on the road and big ol' potholes. But just remember, it is called a road for a reason, you will get to your destination (the right man for you) given time. Cherish every relationship experience you have, because each will help you learn more about yourself and more about what you want in your perfect man. So, put the petal to the metal and don't look back girl.
2006-08-01 04:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's still in love with his ex. probably was ever since he got with you. But, now that he may have a shot at getting back with her, he wants to keep his options open. Time will tell on that one. Give it abut 2 weeks, if he misses you then he will call you begging for another chance. if not, then you know he loved her more than you.
2006-08-01 04:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him..... so .... let him go, he wasn't worth all your stress and you knew that so you left him, so now your pondering and scared that he won't come back? He was fixing to leave you, and he is now back with his ex and is not interested in you anymore, so move on.......... get a new bf........ don't look back on this guy when he was trash and no good any ways!!!
2006-08-01 04:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you don't need him! Have enough confidence in yourself to be comfortable with yourself. You don't need to be with someone else, but if you choose to then make sure you that person is the type of person you actually want to be with. If not, move on. There are plenty of people out there who are good to be in a relationship with who will treat you good.
2006-08-01 04:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by lyf4ce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's what you need to do...go out with your friends have fun, just enjoy your freedom girl. There's no use crying over spilt milk besides i think your boyfriend is doing something behind your back. Think of all the bad things he did to you, you are the only one who can help yourself. But if you really love him then make your move girl...ask him out and don't nag him again...am i clear?
Go girl you can do it....good luck!!!
2006-08-01 05:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by liza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay gone you deserve better.... i know it is hard to do but really sounds to me like he was just waiting for you to break up because he did not want to be the bad guy... he is the bad guy i really think that he wants to get back with his ex.... that is why he is being distant and rude. There are better guys out there!
2006-08-01 04:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to be he was just keeping you on as a backup when he couldn't be with his "ex" or hang with the boys. He was using you for something to do when he did not have anything else going....that is what I think anyway.
2006-08-01 04:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please, hes not that into you he is weakwilled and a user, why are you so scared he wont come back? what do you want him back for .stop selling yourself short get out and get yourself feeling better about yourself ,looking good is the best revenge do not give this *** another minute of YOUR precious time you are too sweet for him
2006-08-01 04:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by FLOSSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by breaking up with this guy. Stick to your decision and find someone who doesn't have so many secrets.
2006-08-01 04:47:03 · answer #11 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋