My ex and i broke up about 2 months ago. But i feel so bad because she didn't graduate from highschool and when she went to summer school she still wasn't able to graduate. She lost her job because she depressed and didn't go and on top of all that she is pregnant. She is always irritated when i talk to her and I dont know if it because of me or all the stuff she is goin threw. She says she doesn't know if she wants me back. She still has feelings but she doesn't want to go out with me right now. I dont want to move on because it will hurt her. How can i make things better people. Please help.
2006-08-01 04:35:42 · 5 answers · asked by its me! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pregnant pissed off single women = Baaaaad.
run away my friend. yes it may hurt her but ya gotta keep yourself in mind as well. unless you want to be henpecked for the rest of your life move on
2006-08-01 04:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the least you can do for her, if not for the child is help her get her diploma or ged. (Continue to) Be a man and watch the kid if she needs you to after it's born, give her a ride to class, or work when she gets another job, show up with her favorite meal or even just a pizza. Give her the room she needs an BE THERE FOR THE BIRTH!!!! even if you're not in the room, be at the hospital or wherever. it's still your kid. and it's not just you and just her or you and her together, there's three of you now (or more if it's twins, etc)
2006-08-01 11:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is overwhelmed and depressed about her situation. Is she putting the baby up for adoption? It sounds like she (and you) have a lot to do to get things together. if you love her, stay and help. If not, help but let her know how you feel. Is the baby yours? How is she going to support it w/o a job or education. Good luck to you both.
2006-08-01 11:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you know this is your child. . . then talk to her about getting married before the kid is born so it is not born a bastard. If you are unsure it's your kid, then get a DNA test to prove or disprove your paternity for your protection later on.
If the kid is definitely yours, then for the kids sake do the right and proper thing by marrying this girl. Convince her it is only right, no matter how long you two stay married: 5-years, 1-year, or one minute, it still legitimizes your child. . . your legacy!
That'll make her happy!
2006-08-01 11:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it your baby.... give her some time she will come around give her some space to handle her problems at the moment but still let her know that your there if she needs you...she has feelings for which means she will eventually want to get back together just hange in there and dont rush her
2006-08-01 11:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tired_of _the_games 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋