my girl friend is fun of calling her ex-boys before coming home from work. i am not comfortable with that and i wish to show my anger. she i ask her to stop or is it normal?
I feel ex should be ex and nothing more for a maxim said: forward ever and backward never!!!!!
2006-08-01 04:34:46 · 28 answers · asked by ineem20012005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her about it. If she doesn't change, I would suggest breaking it off. You don't need to put up with that.
2006-08-01 04:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can break up with someone and become the best of friends. Man up DUDE, are you insecure or something and she did have a life before you. Its cool to ask her but its totally up to her to cut them off. She is just your girlfriend not your fiance or wife. So, I guess you are a saint and just talk to only her and the guys? Yeah right. WE was not born centuries ago~ If you do not trust her then you need not be with her. U be angry~ get over it, she comes home to you and she sees you~ Just chatting with them on the phone and whats wrong with her calling them dudes before she gets home knowing that if she talks in your presence you are angry~ No chick wants to put up with that~ Either find you some old friends or just leave~ Since its such a bother you babe~
2006-08-01 04:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just talk to her. Ask her if she still likes you, and if she says yes then go on about your buisness. If she starts like sneaking out or coming home later than she normally does then tell her that your going to have to break it off. If you feel upset or she gets mad about it then just tell her I'm sorry I gave you a chance you didn't take it so now I'm going to have to let you go. Thats my advice. I don't know what you think about it. I'm not trying to get involved in your relationship or anything, but just a little advice. Hope it works. If not sorry.
2006-08-01 04:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her to stop communicating with ex if you want your relationship to last. If not oh well start back calling your ex and show her how you feel.
2006-08-01 04:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by red334chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this exactly 'I love you very much, you know that, but I just wanted you to know that I feel a little uncomfortable with you calling your ex - boyfriends. i know there is nothing going on and I trust you 100%, but it makes me a little insecure'
She will not do it after you say that to her in a nice voice that doesnt get angry. the truth is that she probably doesnt realise there is a problem.
2006-08-01 04:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes depending on where you live you cant help but bump into your x. I wouldnt be impressed if my steady boyfriend kept on ringing up his x's, still she must be getting some attention from them that she isnt gettting form you???????? You need to build on your relationship until he becomes a distant memory, x's are usually x lovers, and most x lovers had a lot great times together. Plus built up frienships, maybe theyre just friends?? Maybe she just misses the friendhips?????????
2006-08-04 20:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My new man is like that so I had to let ex go even though ex and I are good friends/exlovers. My new man is not comfortable and since I love him I had to let ex go because it was putting strain on new relationship.Sometimes you got to do what you got to do. Let her know how you feel and if she really loves you she'll let him go.
2006-08-01 04:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by heavenly28001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to stop,if she doesn't get rid of her quick,either that or you start calling girls up in front of her,see how she likes it. an ex is an ex or should be.
2006-08-01 04:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by jean c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends r they great friends(her and her ex's)
if they are than thats great and u should leave the situation be if not tell her she shouldnt call if they arent friends
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2006-08-01 04:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i used to call my ex boyfriends it because i still had fellings for him, so yeah i think you should tell her to stop, but then again if they was friends before then just leave it,
do you still call your ex girlfriends?
if so then you both need to sit down and talk good luck
2006-08-01 04:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should ask her to stop and if she refuses, then she has no intention of pursueing you in a deeper relationship and she is keeping her options opens with her ex's.
2006-08-01 04:38:48 · answer #11 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋