hi ..im an 18 yr old girl starting college soon...have been with my bf for 2 years and he is a wonderful guy and ive never met anyone like him...he loves me a lot and is committed to me...i love him too and we have a good rship...
however i feel suffocated in this rship when my friends and colleagues at past workplaces say that i shouldnt check out guys and talk abt them as much as i do...i say that im not married to my bf and whats wrong with me thinking abt other guys..also, i like this guy from my workplace a lot and have told my bf abt...he has been very understanding abt it and says that he wont leave the girl he loves just because she has a crush on someone...i know it hurts him and i feel bad but i really like this other guy..but i love my bf 100 times more..dont wana leave him..he's also my best friend..anyways i know i cant get together with the other guy cos he's from a different religion and moreover he says he thinks of me as his sister.i feel disgusted by tht..
2006-08-01 04:30:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i sms the other guy and talk to him on messenger and email him everyday...i also meet up with my bf..today i didnt kiss my bf when he wanted to but i backed away after a while..i cant until i have that other guy in my mind..i have liked other guys before while in this rship..i continued to like the guy i liked before i met my bf even after we were together..then i also liked a guy friend of mine for a while...he recently stopped being friends with me and this is when all this happened...i have hurt my bf so much but i dont wana feel bad abt it...the thing that hurts me the most is the other guy thinks of me as sister..sighs...views pls..
my bf is going to the same college as me...i dont intend to tell anyone we are together so i can see how man guys like me..and i want to make more friends...also..shd i go out for lunch ith the other guy?...my bf says if i go it would hurt him because he knows that i like the guy and he's not just a friend...help..
2006-08-01 04:32:15 · update #1
the other guy just got setup with another girl....sighs..
2006-08-01 04:35:23 · update #2
obviously you don't know what love is! liking someone is a fine line, but you wouldn't allow yourself to either be around this person or let your thoughts entertain being with him if you really love the person you're with now. and b/c you don't obviously love him, you should tell him the trust about your true feelings and this other guy ASAP
2006-08-01 05:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop playing with your b/f. You don't love him. That much is apparent. You should let him move on with his life so you can go act like the slut you already are acting like. If he was doing these same things to you, you would've left him long ago. Neither of you know what love is. You just can't move on.
2006-08-01 12:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,it'll b a wonderful relation if u cont with ur bf(1st).since both r understanding from 2 yrs onwards....dont insert 3rd guy in between u pls....lets u both b happy forever since both know each other very well.
2006-08-01 11:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Silpa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k... the trick here is to let things settle a bit, just kinda cool down. whatever you do don't burn your bridges. if he says he thinks of you of a sister thats usually a guys way of saying you seem nice but he doesn't really like you, in that way. so I'd forget it, if you love your boyfriend as much as you say you do.
2006-08-01 11:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much to read. I have no idea what to tell you...except maybe you should go to college and have fun instead of worrying so much about boys.
2006-08-01 11:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bf if you, him, and the guy from work can have a 3-some......
2006-08-01 11:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young, and you need to be single for a while, you will just end up hurting too many people.
2006-08-01 11:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by BokBok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should take a break form your bf to see what it is you really want
2006-08-01 11:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult ur bf.....or else just dump him.........
2006-08-01 11:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋