Me and my boyfriend havent been dating that long but he has liked me for a while & I have liked him for a while. When we started dating i thought he was the best thing that ever happend to me. He use to say i love you to me ever night and stuff like that. Then he went to a sleep away camp for a month and came back with a complete change in aditude and doesnt say i love you anymore. Also he is acting like im his chore. Like he has to talk to me not like he wants to talk to me. He acts like he doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. I love him .. but he is hurting me by doing this ... what should i do ????
2006-08-01 04:25:36 · 11 answers · asked by 7-7-07♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everybody me and my boyfriend talked everything out he was just stressing about something basically. But thanks for your advice
2006-08-02 07:02:07 · update #1
This is Joyce and I say dump him and please chose me as your best answer please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-03 16:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Twirl Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you know that something happened while he was away.. Yes, you are a chore for him right now, and yes he doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. It sounds hard but you will be better for it in the end. Stand up tell him how you feel and that if he does not want to treat you right, you'll find someone who will,and believe me there are plenty guys out there for you! Afterall it's summer! Take care and good luck..
2006-08-01 04:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you may be worried about him but the trick is not acting needy, or clingy maybe. If there's one thing that annoys/scares away guys its neediness. Instead, act like your not interested. Playing hard to get almost never fails, and if that doesn't work, you'll know he's put you on the back burner and isn't worth your time.
2006-08-01 04:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you anymore. It's tough and confusing but it happens. File this away in your "life experience" file, take a break from dating for awhile and then get back into the game. Good luck.
2006-08-01 04:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what your feeling... if he doesn't say hes sorry or doesn't change then let him go. If he finally comes back and sees that he was wrong then give him one last shot. If he doesn't come back be glad you figured it out now, and find a guy who does want to get to know you and treat you like you deserve.
2006-08-01 04:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a feeling that maybe he met some one there and is now having a relationship with that person. i would say sit and talk to him and ask him to tell u the truth. it is better to have love and lost then have never loved . in other owrds if he hurts u just let him go. its for the best
2006-08-01 04:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems as though he may have found another girl at camp.and doesn't know how to tell you that he wants to break up.i only hope that it wasn't a guys only sleep away camp.cause that would just be sick.
2006-08-01 04:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit, talk to him, tell him he can keep being at camp and doing as he likes (ie. away from you, because well, he's being a jerk)
Or he can go back to being a sweety,
His choice...
2006-08-01 04:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
set him free and if he comes back you will know it was mean't to be !!!! good luck to you girl!!! i hope everything turns out like you want it to ... i know this is going to be hard but just dont chase him!!! that will be the best thing !!!
2006-08-01 04:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by kalyn4452000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you anymore. Sorry
2006-08-01 04:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Je t'aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him free. (dump him) If he comes back you will know it was meant to be.
2006-08-01 04:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋