ive asked this 3x...ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-08-01 04:07:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
For me when I lost the boy I thought I loved and was going to be with forever I got a make over and hung out with my friends alot. The girl he is seeing now has nothing on you she's younger and more naive so she probably gives into things that you were too smart to give in to when you were with him go out and get a new outfit do your hair and put on some makeup when you look better you feel better your way too young to be depressed show him what he's missing and show him your not suffering over him because when you show weakness men feel power don't give him that, hang out with your girlfriends and do fun teenage stuff maybe you'll meet some new people and by the time school starts you'll feel so good that you'll be assking yourself how could you have been with that looser! Keep your head up girl! NO MAN IS WORTH IT!!!!
2006-08-01 04:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by YD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and buy an amazing outfit for every day of the first week of school. Show off to him what he is missing and what he will never get! Don't take that loser back. You are to young to be caught up in a bad relationship and there are way to many other guys out there that will be honest and treat you right. They are out there and I have one of them!
2006-08-01 13:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax . . . life is too short to feel like this. It's time for you to get on with your life. Frankly, you are coming across as rather possessive. Since you still have a few weeks left until school starts, call up some of your friends and just hang out . . . enjoy yourself . . . don't insist on talking about him . . . HAVE FUN!!!
Good luck!
2006-08-01 11:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he has moved on by dating the new girl. Please listen to me NO MAN IS WORTH BEING DEPRESSED OVER!! and YES you will get over it. You think that this is the only guy in your town, school where ever! Well he is not! When you see him in school oh well! You are better than him. Heck you may see that cute hottie that is new to the school and fine as hell!! Move on girl! You will be fine. Good luck to you in school : - )
2006-08-07 15:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are going to be some pangs of hurt when you see this boy. This is all part of young love, as crappy as it is.
You need to concentrate on your education, not whether you have a boyfriend or not. Then when you are a mature, independent, woman, you will have your pick of the eligible men that will be worthy of your affection.
2006-08-01 11:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuummm ya,
you will so find a new guy to move on. you are young. go find new guys to date. it will be fun! :)
dont expect him to give you the time of day. he has moved on. so you dont need answers b/c that isnt going to change anything. you need to move on just like he has.
2006-08-07 14:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was not ready to be in a relationship with you.......it is his loss. i understand what you are going thru...but you need to focus on yourself for now.....you said yourself not seeing him was good. you have to just stop thinking about what you lost (someone who obvioulsy not ready) and what you gained ( time to learn and the chance of finding someone who is worth your time).
2006-08-07 13:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by CAROLINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school and grow up.
2006-08-01 11:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋