i couldnt go out with a stripper. here is why:
1.most, not all, strippers are VERY scandalous
2.you would constantly have to watch to see if they were cheating on you
3.they may stab you in the back if your not careful, and
4.i could never kiss one.
2006-08-01 04:06:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say no, but not for the same reasons you listed. I have a cousin who was a stripper and she is one of the sweetest, most kind people you will ever meet. She is very generous and LOVES to give to others. (I mean her family and friends, you perverts...) She is 31 and married now with two children. And I am sure she makes a wonderful wife and mother.
However, I still would not go out with a stripper because I'm too jealous. What's mine is mine, and everyone better respect that... both my man and whoever the women would be hollerin at him. Let's just say I wouldn't be able to visit him at work without being banned from the club. I'm not normally the kinda person who flies off the handle, but when it comes to my man the gloves are off. LOL.
Now, if he's the one instigating it that's one thing... and I would just leave. But women tryin to move in on mine is something I have NO tolerance for.
2006-08-01 15:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're overgeneralizing which is never good. I used to be a stripper when I was like 19 and I had a boyfriend at the time who I was 100% faithful to. Currently, I am a paralegal engaged to a nurse practitioner and we have a beautiful daughter. I have a Bachelor's Degree and am writing my first novel. I'm highly intelligent and that brief moment in my life has made me the well-rounded individual I am today.
Further, I find it silly to assume that strippers are sexually promiscuous. I found that it was the regular girls who got drunk at the bar and ended up leaving with anonymous guys. To this day, that's all I see at the bars - skanky girls (non-strippers)
Stop stereotyping
2006-08-01 11:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have listed is true, but you have also described a large part of society.. My point is strippers are like everybody else. Your "homies". The family member who cheats on his wife. The best friend who you find out has been sleeping with your wife for months. Hope you see what i am getting at. Once you get to "know one" you'll see that some of them are about living, and making a life for their family or trying to got to school to better themselves.There are bad ones and good ones, just like in the movie the "Players club"! One last thing for any who might think about going out with a stripper, get to know him or her first hand and "educate" yourself about their situation. Take care and good luck....
2006-08-01 11:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fun for a little while as long as you keep it in the front of your mind that it is not a long term thing. But they are fun!!!!!!!! And ususally they hang out with other strippers, so that could be fun too.
2006-08-01 11:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Pennywise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't base a person by their occupation, IT'S A JOB! If that's the case don't date a construction worker because their too dirty and grimy. Don't date a teacher because she or he is too smart. Come on people, it's just a job. You might miss out on meeting a very nice, intelligent person.
2006-08-01 11:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really despreate. First find out about her background. like y is she stripping. Then if shes stripping because she wants to of likes to shes worth nothing because apparently she likes to show EVERYTHING to men and thats going to be a problem for you b cuz shes more likely to cheat on you and trust in that relationship is going to be a Bi**h! but if shes strpping b cuz she needs to support herself and all other JOB OPTIONS ARE UNAVAILBLE THEN YEA GO FOR IT!
2006-08-01 11:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Bonita W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few female friends who stripped to get through college, Their job did not define them. I judge no man or woman based on their job. So the answer is yes :)
2006-08-01 11:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy Hollenbaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and it was not too bad. You really have to trust her that's for sure. It was kinda an ego boost to have her shakin her butt all night and guys tossing money at her to have her come home to me and buy me stuff with their money. Of course you can NEVER get too serious with one, because c'mon they are strippers!
2006-08-01 11:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a stripper to sit on my face.
2006-08-01 11:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that! It was a great deal of fun and she was nothing like the person she pretended to be on stage...remember for most of them, its just a job!
2006-08-01 11:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋