FURTHER TO MY EARLIER Q:Why does man only have one thing on their mind?

Question

Ok i got quite many responses to my question above, thanks for the contribution; but one thing that i STILL don't understand is, why when men see beautiful girls, some or most of them have to say something to her, sometimes nasty sometimes provocative, sometimes scary, (especially more if they are with a group of friends)? Ok us girls we do look if there are good looking men too, but all we do is look at least, we don't say nasty things or try to be funny.....

Answer 1

Well, when men see an attractive girl, the first thing that comes to mind is, "Sex".

Based on your question i'll give you one point of view:

Girls see a guy in mind, and she can picture all the things like dating, him dressed up, him saying the perfect most romantic thing to her... or him with his just his shirt off...

They assume that is what a guy is thinking, but it's never true, poetry doesn't usually float in a man's head, unless he wants to say it, to lure you into sex.

The less hard they try, the less they are thinking about sex. The guys that are really serious about relationships, are usually the ones already your friends, to be completely honest, but women go after the guy that finds her hot, or sexy... When her best friend that is male, probably finds, and knows her inner beauty, which is why he is still there. Once, a male finds a girlfriend, that he knows he wants to be with for the rest of his life, he tends to abandon his female friends.

So, you're kind of thinking the same thing, in your own way. Ditch the great friend that has great potiental but you always find things wrong with him, for a hot guy, who has no clue about you, or your needs.

While your best friend knows your favorite everything, and all your daily habbits, and would be the perfect partner.

Men, when first seeing a women, think, wow, she's hot. I'd like to get to know her. When he's with friends, he calms his nerves, by punching some jokes out, like 'i'd like to get into those pants', or some other lame lines the guys use now adays. Then he tries to pick his prey, and attacks, he gets nervous, and accidnetly says what is on his mind.... instead of the mumbo jumbo he was going to try to feed you.

Hey, it's honesty!!!

I dated alot of guys, and finanlly i picked the one that was my best friend. Now we've been together for 5 years as a couple, and just recently married. Because we were friends first, we hardly argue, we know what eachother likes, christmas presents are great! we snuggle more than most couples, we already knew each other's families, we've been through thick and think together, and we are litterly 'partners' in life. but nothign is perfect, but you can resolve problems with friends & Family faster than your "new boyfriend."

If a guy really was interested in you, or your personality, they would NOT say those things to you, or to their friends... Things like that are kept between two people. They obviously dont respect that fine liine, and they shouldn't even get a second glance.

Other point of view:
Some girls like that alot, maybe thats the kind of girl they want, Or just love a rough and hardy guy, they find it real attractive, that a guy is bold, and outspoken. Most of the guys that can be outspoken about things like that, are typically experienced. Others though, are wanna be, rico suaves.

Answer 2

Every person has their own approach to every situation. Some women like brash vulgar men. I see them laugh at the way they act. So that is how they decide to break the Ice. Some men are too shy to say anything, and they sit back and wish for someone they know to introduce them to a lovely lady. It is sometimes a response stating, I know you think you are too good for me, so the men use harsh words as a defense. Many different reasons, and it would be much easier if women wore a sign that said, "I am married", or "I am looking", or something.This would eliminate most of the flirting attempts by lesser intelligent beings.

Answer 3

I was raised with manners! Weren't you? Some men just do not get that it is not a turn on when they say some of the things they say! It is more upsetting than anything else, and that is why she walks away unless is she is a $lut! Than who wants her anyways! They should come up with commits that are nice and appropriate, and they would get a better response from women! Most women think about these things thou! Why don't men?

Answer 4

Not all men act this way. Certainly a gentleman would never act this way. Gentleman just means any man with good manners.

For the most part, men who do this either:

1. Know they're acting rude, and they're enjoying making women feel uncomfortable. It's called harrassment.

or

2. Are so no-class that they think they're paying the woman a compliment in the hopes of getting into her pants.

Either way, men who have class don't do it.

Answer 5

Hi What u said is correct. Men always think that women is a weaker sex compared to them.
But now the trend is lowly changing
women are becoming strong and the day is not far when we both will stand together

Answer 6

Personally I don't currently know any guys who are that disrespectful. Maybe you just don't know the right guys! There ARE gentlemen left in the world, you just gotta know where to look! Try BYU or BYU idaho for the some of the biggest concentrations of them.

Answer 7

be careful with your generalisation. there are women out there who are worse than the men you just described. and be fair to the men also, not all of them are sex-crazed, a**-grabbing fiends. men and women are different from each another. men are different from one another. the same goes for the women.

Answer 8

There's a lot mean spirited/ weak people in the USA.

Answer 9

It's just male bravado : we don't want to show girls/women how much of an effect they have on us.

Answer 10

Sadly, Gentlemen are alltogheter too rare.
I weep for my gender.