What if you had someone who you really loved, and then they were moving away from you for awhile (we were engaged by the way), and then she decided to stay. For several weeks, you are the happiest guy alive by her decision to stay, but she is continually hurting you during this time. Then, she causes a huge argument, you break up, then you make up, but agree to only be no more than friends, then you break up again, and then you suck up your pride (even though you were in the right) and appologize to her and her family for something you didn't even do, just to show her that you aprpeciate her, love her, and would do anything for her. at this point, she tells you that she is going to move away from you again, knowing that that decision will make you the most miserable person alive. what would you do?
2006-08-01 03:52:41 · 23 answers · asked by pilotmanitalia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I'm very sorry for you, but she is clearly telling you that she's leaving you.
I think she needs to do what ever she needs to do in this different country, and she might feel she want to get back to you.
What you need to do now is tell her that you will you will leave her, and value her decision, because you love her, and be happy for her.
Let go of her in a good way.
Than, after she's done her moving and all, she might think again for you. I think that's the only possiblity... but don't think much, try to move on.
Don't desperately hold on to her. That makes everything worse.
2006-08-01 04:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never going to work, so you have to let her go, and get on with your life.
Now I know that that's not really what you want to hear, but it's for the best. You WILL be the most miserable person alive (together with all the other people in the world that are in the same situation at the moment), for some time, but time is a healer, and you will gradually feel better and better.
Then suddenly, when you are least expecting it, possibly while you are still wallowing, someone else will come into your life, and you will be the happiest person alive.
Onwards and upwards!
2006-08-01 11:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by nige_but_dim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u do if u fall? u get up. so u telling me that she slap u ansd u give her ur other chick over n over. u are making u self the most miserable person by letting her putting u in that situation. You gotta move on .you can do way better than that.
now if u chose to live ur live miserably,them anytime she wanna play with ur feeling u act like suck it n let her get way with that.
be man .stand up is hard but ur no making easy on your self by
letting her play you a like if u are butthead or beavis.
need time off way from her. cut off all comunication.
even if u still love her go out date other women.
u gotta make a change for u self..whats good for u mayno be good for her. i bet you she see you or hear about it u dating any other women she may wanna even move with.
if she try turn her dow.say NO!.. u better off without her!.
2006-08-01 11:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Novato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when anyone you love or care for leaves. But this girl is playing head games with you! Let her go, don't dwell on it (I know it's hard not to) and it will make you stronger. And then when you find that girl that reciprocates the love you give her you will appriciate it more and you will look back and realize how much this mind games girl helped you in the long run.
2006-08-01 11:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by curiouschick2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's this saying : ''if u love her you'll let her go'' in this case is kinda like the same, but not quite cause she has been rude and hasn't appreciate all the love u have given her.
Try to forget about her cause if u r good guy you'll find the right girl 4 u.
2006-08-01 11:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Latina baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move on and find someone who loves and appreciates you. Don't stay and take anymore of these games. Good luck and I hope you find a girl who makes you happy not miserable.
2006-08-01 11:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by miss_nikki214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on how much you really love her..... If you really love her that much tell her.... in a relationship, arguments are common.... but if she moves away, Your heart is gonna break into a million pieces and will take a long time to heal.... stop her from leaving if your really love and care about her that much..... judging by what you did i can tell that you must really love her so make sure you stop her from leaving
2006-08-01 11:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Help ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! she is playing games. Kick her to the curb, and move on with your life. Maybe your next relationship you will be more of a man and not let these women control your life.
2006-08-01 10:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get control of myself and find somebody whos better.If she want to go everytime there is a problem between you two,let her go and dont let her in your way again.be strong you can do it.
Go out and explore cause always somebody there for you,sometime it take time but patient is the key and you will find one when the time is right.good luck
2006-08-01 11:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is just toying with you at this point and doesn't care about your feelings, no matter how much (or if) she says she does. So, tell her it's done once and for all, and take power back over your feelings.
2006-08-01 10:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Monique Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋